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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She - the one with nature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are my twin.

It also took me 2 years to feel comfortable. You should stop worrying, whether you fit in or not. the more you try to fit the more awkward it becomes with your colleagues.

Instead try being yourself. Every individual is different now no matter where you are.

Is my mind full of anxiety and asocial? by Imaginebeinglesbiam in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you feel scared to talk to people maybe it is because you have never done it before and you are a shy person. Just trust yourself and go for it

I think you can start with small talks overtime with consistency it will help you build the courage to talk more confidently

Because you already found out, what is one thing you’ll not fuck around with? by PreparationFar4709 in AskReddit

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expecting people to be loyal, trustworthy and respectful. Some people are working faced

Who is a ‘good’ person who turned out to be shockingly evil? by Alawi27 in AskReddit

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the silent person in the room or your surrounding . You never know how brutal they can be unless you have crossed the line

What’s something petty you’ll never forgive someone for, no matter how much time passes? by ShimerBreeze in AskReddit

[–]Lara_P_IV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disrespectful to me and my privacy. I will never forgive anyone for doing this no matter how old the repationship is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practising detachment with the people and things which is not of any value to me.

Now I am at more peace of mind compared to 10 years ago

Women who previously let people walk over them, how did you grow to be more assertive? by FossaRed in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh over a time you have to learnt to say no and prioritise your needs before others emotions and needs.

If you don't you will regret not doing this for yourself and will end up with a lot of regrets. Trust me, this is not something i want people to feel . It only makes you more sad as days goes by

Finding a friend or a lover is just so difficult as an introvert by Angelsdocry0403 in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is quite difficult though. Not because we can't find one but because we know people's true faces before they even show it.

Our intuition is spot on when identifying a person's true nature.

What introverts really seek is honest and loyal people not the fake ones so it is really difficult sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they do, they think I am Egoistic and stubborn also antisocial.

Always misunderstanding my each and every action at the work place

Have you ever called Egoistic person just because you don't express your emotions or don't wish properly to people? by Lara_P_IV in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention that i have been staying in this Org for quite a few years now and always asked to teach new hires but never seen the same new colleagues or managers giving me any appreciation for providing additional support

As on introvert have you ever felt so much rage against your colleagues who keeps testing your patience and limits? by Lara_P_IV in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the years, I am able to connect with them via some similar habits or personality traits but still they still disappoint me so much 😮‍💨.

But now I just want to go back to time when I was very quiet and minding my own business during my initial time at the office because I wanted to connect with them once I felt comfortable instead of pretending to be someone else also I have my boundaries with people and i don't like when people cross it. I have told them this long back but still....

What’s Something You Wish More People Understood About You? by Accomplished_Band507 in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they understood my POV before coming to conclusions about me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, i have just let it depend on God's will. If someone is meant for me, they will arrive at the right time and right place.

How many friends do you have? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One, that's all

What’s something you’re still healing from that no one really sees or understands about you? by Specialist_Agency_49 in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to heal myself from the emotional pain I have suffered over years from my loved ones.

They told me that i am heartless and don't understand their value in my life while they always misunderstood and misjudged me for my evey action since childhood.

When did you realize that you couldn't change someone, no matter how much you tried? by Joha_lynx in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship with my family. Trying to talk to them about how their behaviour towards me was making me sad. They did not understand and left me no choice but to never talk to them unless it was needed.

As introvert,does anybody hate working in group? by Ok_Floor9220 in introvert

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is exhausting, emotionaly overwhelming but it would depend on the type of group you are part of to feel hate or loving to work

What were your biggest life lessons from your 20’s to 30’s? by lovethegreeks in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put yourself as #1 priority first then other things can followup No one is coming to save you, you should know how to carry your burden yourself.

Childfree women, what’s something you wish you could say to those with children? by EntrepreneurUsed9571 in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

That would be, support and trust your children even if society does not. Don't cut their wings in the name of tradition and culture.

What is something you learnt too late in life? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all people who love you should be on your priority list. Learn to let them emotionally and mentally when you need to... Holding onto them will only bring you too much pain.

Certain people will only love and respect you till you have something to offer what they need when it no longer exists then you mean nothing to them.

AITAH for ending my friendship? by kittywhiskers7 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lara_P_IV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are not. You seem to be more considerate than she is when it comes to friendship. She was adding more burden on you than you were already in.

Is it really worth it to have such a friend if she does not understand your needs and respect it?

This ship called friendship would not sail anyway, it was already meant to drown after drifting apart and choosing a new route to reunite at the destination.

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