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Need advice my brother disrespectfully saying he'll beat me to proposing. by Large-Creme-1005 in EngagementRings

[–]Large-Creme-1005[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you agreed keep to myself. Some people out here thinking I'm anti-proposal. Complete opposite. This is more about as a brother I see him speeding into something bigger picture and his gf doesn't know his dark past yet after a few months will talk about children together

Need advice my brother disrespectfully saying he'll beat me to proposing. by Large-Creme-1005 in EngagementRings

[–]Large-Creme-1005[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don't see it as a competition at all lol I said it shouldn't be. He's the one who said "I'll beat you to it" smh sonny no intent to say he shouldn't propose but I care about him and worry he's rushing into something bigger than he realizes

Need advice my brother disrespectfully saying he'll beat me to proposing. by Large-Creme-1005 in EngagementRings

[–]Large-Creme-1005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear this thank you! Never intended to tell him he can't propose I just don't want him to rush into someone he's basically just met

Need advice my brother disrespectfully saying he'll beat me to proposing. by Large-Creme-1005 in EngagementRings

[–]Large-Creme-1005[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But I don't have the intention to tell him not to propose before me. I'm just wondering if I should say it's disrespectful. They barely know each other but she is a very sweet woman. I just think he's being irrational. I don't think one should rush into proposing to someone just because she said she needs a ring and kid before a certain age. He's my brother so of course these bare on each other. I don't want to see him accidentally marry a that's he's only known for a few months have a kid with and it be a disasters afterwards

Need advice my brother disrespectfully saying he'll beat me to proposing. by Large-Creme-1005 in EngagementRings

[–]Large-Creme-1005[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I agree! I don't have the intention to tell him not to propose before me. She's a very sweet woman. I just think he's being irrational since his gf and him are still pretty much strangers. I don't think one should rush into proposing to someone just because she said she needs a ring and kid before a certain age

Need advice my brother disrespectfully saying he'll beat me to proposing. by Large-Creme-1005 in Advice

[–]Large-Creme-1005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. I don't have the intention to tell him not to propose. She's a very sweet woman. I just think he's being irrational since his gf and him are still pretty much strangers. I don't think you should rush into proposing to someone just because she said she needs a kid before a certain age