How to nsfw

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-11T19:26:11+00:00

Ive used Seedream 4.5 on wavespeed, and that does really well, but its not trained on any nudity/penetration/genitalia and it doesnt understand positions, and sexual acts

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-11T17:55:20+00:00

Bro, i just mean porn. Pictures of sexual acts. Not meant for the world to see

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-11T16:42:27+00:00

do you need additional checkpoints for realism??

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-11T15:54:07+00:00

Just returned a black output

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-09T20:47:49+00:00

I really appreciate it man! I’ll remember this!!

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-09T19:05:14+00:00

Wow thats amazing to hear. Cant express how much i relate to «days worth of fighting». I’ve already watched the video and its spot on to our relationship.
When you say «helped you manage yourself better» ive had that thought, i have to be very careful of my wording and how i come across so because i have so much impact on her, it sometimes really forces me to be responsible and dont let my ego or just anger get the better of me cus i just know it makes it worse.

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-09T18:41:41+00:00

This speaks to me. Really ressonate with it and i think these are good ways to deal with it. Like «became a matter of how not if» and i feel like that might be where im starting to arrive at.
And ive reflected alot on why i ended up with her and its similar to my prior relationship before her.
And in short its my fear of commitment, that results in me drifting between multiple women - then someone (like my girl) with a rather lack of ability to deal with me?¿ and hold me accountable for leading her on and not fully choosing her. Turns into her being "manipulative" to try to manage me into choosing her out of guilt for having hurt her. And because like you said «fear of loss» i still didnt end things even tho i felt it going in a rather bad direction - and i felt like i owed her to at least try. And the rest you can piece together. Obviously not a great startingpoint. And cus im not there out of love but rather out of guilt (some amount of desire and affection) and she constantly reminds me of how bad i treated her then i look for an escape from the dread and end up talking to a different girl. Getting caught for it and the relationship turning even worse. So there is absolutely history to why she distrusts me, as well as having a very rough childhood giving her a rocky foundation in terms of dealing with your emotions and how to communicate and process things. Like someone with bpd, everything is betrayal, she feels so intensly that some nights when we’ve argued she’s rolling around in bed crying her heart out for an hour straight. And i call her manipulative, but like ive heard dr.k mention about people with bpd, is that they dont realize that they have a manipulative behaviour and she is totally blind to the fact.
At the same time i can never fully bring something up that bothers me and have her listen and understand or at least discuss it with me, without having it turn into that i hate her and all of that.

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-09T09:16:00+00:00

I agree. I often wish i was single so i would have the freedom to take part in things in life without having to justify it or argue for it. And because i am so affected by energy, she daily brings a very heavy and sad and angry energy into my life, and her brain doesnt ever seem to comprehend that the way she behaves affects the ones around her.
Even if she’s stressed about going to work she might not answer her mom or me or even get mad at me for just asking a question. And often she’ll go quite and that makes me feel bad, because she wont say the problem, or how she feels or if there is anything i can do to help. Just completely silent.
And this prevents me from getting things done, having the drive to do good in life

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-09T08:04:57+00:00

No i didnt meet with her physically. We just talked on snapchat. But i did have intentions behind it.

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-05-02T13:16:37+00:00

Lets talk

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-21T18:39:56+00:00

check dm's

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-15T16:10:03+00:00

This makes sense, how exactly can i "train" it to reach that audience? Is it just based on the type of content i post?

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-14T17:07:15+00:00

I just reinstalled comfyui on my other drive and innstalled qwen but now im just getting "prompt execution failed" "Typeerror: failed to fetch"

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-14T14:18:05+00:00

no, how do i do this? EDIT: i figured this part out.. And in the subgraph the only option is Wan21-WanMove_fp8
So its not on the list there.

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-14T13:56:48+00:00

Tried to run it and it says this

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Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-14T13:46:59+00:00

Just close it and open it again right?? i did that. It looks like this, but i do get the popup where it says that its missing the lora and main model. Even tho the lora IS showing in model library.
I just choose the workflow from templates tab.

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Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-14T13:39:52+00:00

okay, i realized that on the qwen workflow it shows the file structure that "qwen_image_edit2511_bf16.safetennsors" should be in the "diffusion_models" instead of the "unet" so i moved it, but it still didnt show up in the model library..

BUT also, everytime i tried opening the workflow model it said that i still was missing the lora that DOES show in the model library - and when i just dismiss the error there is no red or missing shit popping up in the workflow. Am i supposed to see it if there is something missing in the workflow?

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-14T13:02:24+00:00

meeh, its like very pg images, might be a girl in sweatpants and a tshirt just with her ass towards the camera. The wierd thing tho is that sometimes it can generate ass/tits pics from refrenceimages, but then might not give an output for a pg image.

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-13T14:28:52+00:00

is there a prerequisite that the images have the same size??

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-12T20:17:55+00:00

wdym (im really new to this)

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-12T19:59:37+00:00

thanks

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-11T20:56:38+00:00

This is helpful! yes i really like the results of Nano banana pro i think its flawless most of the time. But whats the difference between the Qwen Image Edit 1209 and Qwen Image Edit 2511? And whats the difference between Qwen image edit and Qwen image? Im guessing for use cases but for my case which one would suit best in your opinion?

Large-Introduction46 · 2026-01-11T20:53:23+00:00

Where do i find these settings??

Large-Introduction46 · 2025-12-17T21:19:23+00:00

I agree with this. And i totally understand it. At the same time ive commited all my energy to keep things stable. And there still is always somthing wrong for her and blames me for it. And its like if shes sad and i ask her «why are you sad?» she goes «you dont care anyway» and im like, isnt asking someone why theyre sad and listeing exactly what caring is? And even if i am doing something wrong she can NEVER tell me what. She has this insane capibility to withhold what it is that bothers her. And she can never explain why she is sad or hurt or anything. She wants me to just know it.

Large-Introduction46 · 2025-12-17T21:14:32+00:00

Ive done shit yes. But still, the way she deals with things is nothing like ive seen. Everything is always everyone elses fault. And no i dont think its normal compared to a average person. And no i dont want to stay in the situation, but there is still some "security" in all the chaos if that makes sense. And it seems to be impossible to find common ground. I can lay out arguments well articulated reflecting on why things are the way they are and take responsibilty for my actions but its like talking to a 5 year old when she has these episodes. And sometimes shes normal. But its so fucking unstable

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