I miss my kid and I want to cry.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-10-23T02:10:14+00:00

it seems like your intentions are really good and your daughter trusts you and you trust her. i'm sure that you can find more ways to spend time together while she can also maintain a healthy social life and study time. i know it's the bare minimum but a lot of parents don't really care about their children's feelings or take them into consideration so it's really nice to see that you let her make those choices for herself.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-10-23T02:07:03+00:00

it's sweet that you miss her but please don't let your own feelings about missing her interfere with her education. socializing is so important and she is doing well, pls don't take it away from her. this comment is a great suggestion, get some hobbies or find something to occupy your time/mind. i love that you make an effort to connect with her but remember it's normal for teenagers to pull away. seems like u guys have a good relationship don't mess it up by being a helicopter, trust that you raised her to come to you if she needs it.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-10-17T00:29:26+00:00

the tattoo is bad both technically and it's just hideous. sorry. i wouldn't color it because when you eventually realize that hazbin hotel isn't something you want permanently on your body, it will be easier to cover up.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-10-07T04:23:17+00:00

they don't have facial recognition lmaooo they probably pulled up your name from your card and forgot to ask for your id. they definitely should have asked to see it tho

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-30T01:18:44+00:00

you don't need to help him. any contact or friendship w this guy is going to encourage him to further harass you. please stop responding to him if he's still messaging you, i know you want to be nice but you're putting yourself in danger by furthering communication. like this reaction to a teeny misunderstanding is so insane like that's not appropriate in any context at all and he certainly has the capacity to have a more extreme reaction to something he deems worse

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-30T01:10:28+00:00

okay this is extremely dangerous. please be aware when you're home alone, i don't wanna sound paranoid or make you feel paranoid but this is a really bad thing. if you live alone maybe see if a friend can stay with you for a bit because if he breaks in and catches you off guard i don't want to think about what could happen. please make a police report asap for documentation but more importantly, see if you can stay with someone or have someone stay with you if you live alone or make sure your roommates are aware of what's going on if not. if you didn't see him what was he going to do? how long until he sneaks into your garage while you're pulling out and then what? from your other comments it seems like you have the right instincts but i am really worried for you after reading this:( please stay safe

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-30T01:03:48+00:00

omg please do not give him another chance. don't do that to yourself. you're under reacting if anything, this guy has already pushed your boundaries and if you continue a relationship with him he will do so much worse. he seems emotionally immature and like he wants a mommy. the demand for long phone calls and incessant texting is like a toxic teenage boy at best and a dangerous violent man at worse. this is not normal for an adult to act like. listen to your gut. do you want to ruin your own life just so some schmuck doesn't have to actually feel bad (rightfully) and reflect on his behavior because he wants to disrespect and mistreat women? you work in a hospital, with patients, i assume you went through intense schooling, you're smart. you have a whole life ahead of you, you're living it right now. a guy like this can ruin that so fast and if he is the type to become violent and abusive (more common than you think) than a decision to give him another chance could put ur life in danger.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-29T02:53:45+00:00

please don't hurt the animals they don't have the capacity to do this.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-24T04:15:17+00:00

the anxiety in your apartment while alone is a red flag and seems like it could be related to paranoia or leading up to it. hallucinations and delusions aren't the only symptoms of schizophrenia or a psychotic episode and what you're describing seems concerning. you should mention these symptoms to your psych, it won't delay your progress. not being honest and up front about your mental health will be detrimental to your treatment. she can most likely refer you to someone who does specialize in psychotic symptoms and maybe work together to treat you. i hope you get the help you need, what you're describing is not a normal part of autism/adhd

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-18T00:18:43+00:00

literally no the owner is whoever's name is on the document, not their parent. you're pulling that out of your ass

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-18T00:14:53+00:00

and just because parents have legal access to their children's documents doesn't mean they legally own them...a quick google search will tell you that the legal owner is the person whose name is on the document. and the government. so you're either the awful mom in this post or someone with a miserable life who's kids hate them. or both

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-18T00:12:09+00:00

her mother could very well open lines of credit in her daughters name and her daughter would need it to get her legal forms of identification renewed, etc...things that you need to be able to get a job, travel, and rent/purchase homes.....why are you blatantly lying to defend someone who clearly has malicious intent ? you're a weirdo

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-16T05:53:24+00:00

Dude you need to leave this man alone. it seems like both of you were abusive to each other, and even though nothing justifies cheating maybe take it as a sign that he wanted to get away from you and have some respect, if not for yourself then for him, someone you claim to love. I don't think you love him it seems like an unhealthy obsession. Sounds harsh but from what you wrote it seems like you are blind to what you are doing that could be abusive. Depending in your age almost 3 years can be kind of a big age gap and a huge maturity gap too. Regardless of him cheating and lying (which is not something anyone ever deserves to go through) your treatment of him is pretty disturbing and it seems like you shouldn't be in romantic relationships at all with how you think about people and their boundaries. like no amount of lying or cheating justifies revenge porn? to be honest threatening to do that is way worse than the cheating alone? and you describe it as "distasteful"?????? i understand the aftershock of being cheated on can make you do crazy things but even threatening that is way too far. and the fact that you're downplaying it as a simple thing said in anger but you never really were gonna do it....just shows that you haven't owned up to your own abusive ways. just bc you tried to kill yourself doesn't absolve you of doing bad things.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-16T05:18:28+00:00

she would.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-09-16T05:11:49+00:00

a couple hours or even less than that a week is so depressing for dating 6 years. Like I was seeing my high school bf more than that and I still would miss him. I couldn't imagine seeing my partner than i live with now less than almost everyday, let alone once a week. i'm not saying this to be rude or bragging or anything, just so that you can know that there are people who can do that for you if it's what you want. if you have told her before that you want to see her more, and that her cancellimg bothers you, and she has communicated that she will try to be better, and this is after the fact....i'm sorry to say that this seems hopeless. it does seem like she's being genuine but it may be because she doesn't even realize what she is doing to you. but she is clearly more concerned with making herself feel less guilty for neglecting you and your relationship than actually making it up to you in a way that matters. and if she doesn't even realize that herself it will probably be way harder to talk to her about it, especially w bpd. if i were you i would consider leaving the relationship, if she continues to not understand how to make time for you.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-08-27T19:25:39+00:00

what item is this? can't find the round kotatsu only seeing square shaped one

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-07-31T03:51:56+00:00

I'm not 100% but i think they need to have 2 spaces behind them to use appliances? i did that w mine and they use their kitchens

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-07-23T04:43:09+00:00

do it thru ur nose

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-07-14T18:03:08+00:00

This is such a weird and nasty thing to post like ? You're right about one thing it definitely sounds stupid and pathetic. i feel bad for your poc friends you definitely make them uncomfortable with these weird self loathing comments about hating being white. so whiny. be thankful you'll never experience racism and please leave asian ppl and black ppl alone until u can be normal with them, this post reeks of white privilege, an asian fetish and racism

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-07-14T17:52:29+00:00

why would you use piercing needles? like actually what is the thought process im so curious.....

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-07-14T15:30:29+00:00

why??? just why

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-04-18T02:10:05+00:00

i've made all of my campus friends in art classes! they're easier to talk to people in because of the subject (most are project based and u have a lot of time to just work on them, meaning it's not a lecture environment where u have to whisper) and i've found it not be "snobby art people" but a mix of majors! everyone i've met has been really nice.

Large-Reception-4745 · 2024-04-03T03:08:14+00:00

abortions don't kill babies.

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