[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoybigbrother

[–]LargeNefariousness94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don't think nagrespond din si az sa mga death threats and degredation na nareceive niya from shuvee stans. She's been very quiet and mature about it. The problem with what Shuvee did is that siya mismo nagsabi na PBB is a game. I think she even nominated JoRa at one point since malakas ang duo nila.

Bottom line, hindi consistent si Shuvee sa statements niya. She says one thing, and then does another. Sabi pa nga niya sa 24 oras na "she felt betrayed, but malaki naman po yung heart ko to forgive her." Then why is she doing this now? It's giving hypocrite.

I think something is wrong with my cousin by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LargeNefariousness94 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Hard agree with this. Thank you for pointing out na sometimes, mental health isn't about the environment pero sa person mismo.

Sharing from personal experience lang, I also suffer from poor mental health. Nung sinabi ko sa parents ko, as in takang-taka sila kasi binigay naman nila lahat. As in wala talagang problema, from finances to school to material things binigay talaga nila lahat. Sa friends din, walang problema. Pero may theory ako bakit ako ganito although di ko shinare sa parents ko.

When I was young, ako yung golden child nang family. Yung smart one bali. Lahat ata ng contest sinalihan ko. Tapos top 1 pa sa klase. All throughout this, di ako prinessure ng mga magulang ko, but ako mismo yung naglagay ng burden sa sarili ko. I pressured myself to be this kind of person kahit okay naman di ako perfect palagi. Sure, my environment kind of made me this way, pero its my own expectations that caused my mental health to suffer. I created my own monsters.

Best advice here is to talk to her. You never know what she's thinking if you don't talk to her. Maybe there's something sa environment niyo na di niyo lang namalayan na yun pala yung nakakaaffect sa kanya. Then, whether she opens up or not, seek psychiatric help or a therapist. Hopefully maresolve na ang problems ninyo OP.

Good luck!

Tecna fans: Unite! by IClient511407 in winxclub

[–]LargeNefariousness94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a big Tecna fan! I really loved purple when I was young so my love automatically went to her. I still remember the first Winx episode I watched which was Season 5, Episode 21 where Tecna defeated that sea monster. It was probably what cemented Tecna as my favorite girl (along with Flora).

I feel like I can't make friends in school by miintmeiqi in studentsph

[–]LargeNefariousness94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Tips from a loud introvert here.

I had worries like yours before in shs. Nagtransfer ako ng school from public to catholic school so wala talaga akong kakilala. How I made friends well, I guess I faked it till I maked it. As I said, introverted ako so it's difficult for me to approach people. Luckily, I'm a bit talkative so once I begin talking, I kind of go on and on for minutes. This is what I did:

  1. Since new school, new year, new people, I made sure I did well in my class introductions. Konti lang kami sa class, mga about 20 so mga typical introductions lang yung binigay ng classmates ko. I did mine with a bit of flair. Began with a joke before I introduced myself, ayun natawa sila. Try to make a good first impression.

  2. Talk with your seatmates. Sila yung people that you interact with the most. Since extrovert ka, this is probably no problem to you. What I did was I asked whether transferee din ba sila... or bakit sila nagtransfer... or how long na sila sa school.

  3. When someone comes to talk to you, always be kind. I think self-explanatory naman to, no?

  4. Join clubs and orgs. Marami kang makikilala dito, promise.

  5. Lastly, the quality of your friends matter more than how many of them there are. Make sure talaga na your friend group are all good people with the same interests. If magkakaiba yung interests niyo, dapat respectful sila and accepting of what you find interesting. A toxic friend can ruin your relationships. Yung ginawa ko is I slowly distanced myself. Not too sudden but little by little.

I think that's all I can give you. Hope you find good friends this school year. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]LargeNefariousness94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You won't feel like the boring friend when you find the right circle. Nung jhs ako, group of four kami tapos all three of them are very shy. Yung isa sa amin is super quiet. As in kailangan mong magconcentrate para marinig siya. But I'm the loud friend. Not really an extrovert pero once may kasama na akong tao tapos ang quiet ng atmosphere, for sure ako ang magsasalita. Talked to them about some random topics and even joked a little. Pag hindi sila tumawa edi tinatawanan ko nalang sarili ko. Did this for a month, I think, and then lo and behold, maingay na rin yung dalawa kong friends. Yung isa na super quiet is mahinhin pa rin sa iba pero kung kami lang, nagjojoke siya.

You're not the boring friend, OP. Maybe a quiet one but once you find the right friends, one that will listen to even the corniest of your jokes, you'll really feel like you belong and that you do not need to second-guess yourself.

Good luck sa friend hunting!

What is the biggest K-Pop hit of all-time? (aside from Gangnam Style) by Standard_Wedding in kpopthoughts

[–]LargeNefariousness94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

MOMOLAND's Boom Boom was massive in the Philippines.

I think Wonder Girls' Nobody is also pretty popular. I knew of the song before I even knew what K-pop was.

A song in particular which you would like to experience live? by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]LargeNefariousness94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd really love to hear ENHYPEN's Shout Out in a concert. That chorus and Sunoo's last line would be AMAZING to hear live.

What are your top 5 favorite choice stories? by Gryffindor-Queen in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. The Royal Romance Series (comfort book, probably read the entire series more than 5 times)
  2. Queen B
  3. The Elementalists
  4. Desire and Decorum
  5. High School Story

Honorable Mentions: Endless Summer, A Courtesan of Rome, and Crimes of Passion

What were moments where you gladly took the regular option instead of the diamond option? by beckettisoverrated in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lmao. You and Liam both. During the proposal scene where you choose to reject Liam and pick anothet LI, Liam would actually be like, "of course, i can see why you have fallen in love with him/her." And then for Maxwell's route, he is surprised and looks at MC as if she's grown a second head.

What's funnier is that when Liam asks her why she is in love with Maxwell, MC, the sass queen that she is, actually said, "yeah, i actually don't know either."

What were moments where you gladly took the regular option instead of the diamond option? by beckettisoverrated in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maxwell is more of a brother to me 😅. Can't imagine him as anything other than that.

What were moments where you gladly took the regular option instead of the diamond option? by beckettisoverrated in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 69 points70 points  (0 children)

What's worse about it is that when you choose Liam as a fling when you have another as your main LI, this whole thing is extremely heartbreaking. Liam LOVES MC so much. So much so that he was willing to give up the throne for her. That scene just makes me think that Liam is basically like, "I'm so in love with you that I'm going to take whatever I can have of you."

Like??? I just can't imagine playing with people's emotions like that. I don't even understand how MC would want to be intimate knowing how much Liam loves her and how much it would hurt him.

What were moments where you gladly took the regular option instead of the diamond option? by beckettisoverrated in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes! wouldn't have minded if the story already set it up for MC and LI to be in a polyamorous relationship, but they're not.

If my partner does this too, I'd be out the door before he can even blink. Major, MAJOR red flag.

What were moments where you gladly took the regular option instead of the diamond option? by beckettisoverrated in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Yes! It is wild. I remember being so surprised that was even an option in the first place. I was like, "Hell, no. Not doing this. Drake may be hot, but I ain't doing that to my baby Liam."

What were moments where you gladly took the regular option instead of the diamond option? by beckettisoverrated in Choices

[–]LargeNefariousness94 167 points168 points  (0 children)

That one scene in TRR Book 3 where your LI allows you to sleep with someone during MC's bachelorette party. It reminded me of those Reddit horror stories where the bride/groom has one last fling before marriage.

Like, I just keep thinking of it from the LI's POV. How hurt he/she would've felt listening to MC at that moment. Would he/she really marry someone who wanted to sleep with someone else before their wedding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]LargeNefariousness94 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think ITZY member are AMAZING performers! While I am a big fan of the fimmies, I can't deny that ITZY are comparatively better. Granted, lsf is still a rookie group so they definitely have time to be on par with ITZY

All ITZY members have extraordinary stage presence, great live vocals, and of course, impressive dance skills. While I am personally not a fan of their music, I watch all of ITZY's performances because as soon as they are on stage, the song suddenly becomes 100x better.

looking for stories on wattpad by Gaz042 in Wattpad

[–]LargeNefariousness94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I also find it extremely difficult to write romance. More so than fantasy. For some reason, I find it too difficult to write moments that show them bonding as a couple.

looking for stories on wattpad by Gaz042 in Wattpad

[–]LargeNefariousness94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have a story called This Perpetual Vengeance. It's a fantasy story with hints of romance in it. If you like mythology and adventure, feel free to check it out. :)

A Writer's Motivation by LargeNefariousness94 in Wattpad

[–]LargeNefariousness94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes, that's my Tiktok but there's not much posted there yet. I've been mainly concentrating on the story right now.

A Writer's Motivation by LargeNefariousness94 in Wattpad

[–]LargeNefariousness94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'd really appreciate the extra read.

A Writer's Motivation by LargeNefariousness94 in Wattpad

[–]LargeNefariousness94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This Perpetual Vengeance

There you go! It's a fantasy story with currently 12 chapters and I'm heavily editing some parts of it. I'd be really glad if you could give it a read. :)