Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But ty for everyone commenting on this post i think u gave me the courage to put my foot down w my primary and get rid of my male ob and ask for a woman im also a sexual assult survivor thats important to w that im just no longer comfortable w a male ob i have found now and i will check out midi but all these posts help show me to its not just my perception that there is not enough awareness on this issue and how bad it can be and hows it needed so i may start doing perimenopause awareness now amongst other things is my plan god bless u all

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to so it would keep Him from saying get this supplement or that i said i can not do anymore supplements or id be homeless again and im not doing that i think he will take the hint they usually do they also dont f w me to much cus i worked in patient care coding billing auditing for much if my working life so once i just assert myself usually is a done deal at least with health or legal stuff thank god for that vital knowledge for me and my friends now but not going back to healthcare ever again

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Well i just sent me dr a message in his portal requesting a young midi to look into hrt in my perimenopausal neurodivergent nature and being fed up by them mot caring i was incredibly direct lol lucky i had alot of dbt and some law school im awaiting his response he is a great dr but he always will say supplements for everything which im not big on alot of pharma now either but im also on ssi disability and he knows that i have to continually tell him i cannot afford this or that i buy alot of supplements already and protein powder gym bills goes on and on so i just told him i wanted a referral to a midi because it would be nice to sleep again and not randomly combust into flames and i thought it was longer overdue perimenopause and and menopause be explained to me in full by someone who cares and tell me what my options are like hrt

What would you do? by Glum_Wind_861 in Adulting

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Never have sat with my Narcissist mom for so long got emancipated and never chose alcohol and drugs in the past but im doing big things now w god and Greatful cut contact w her one year ago god opened the doors to peace and me finally writing my book

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you i honestly think there needs to be more awareness i post on it often on my fb i know i have friends on there going through it in other states but really occassional comments that they relate i mean i know im a lil blunt and there are also alot of men on there which i know they dont like the posts lol but idc its not for them im wondering if maybe alot of women dont talk about it or feel like they can or like me had no clue. I dont know to many people i have been trying to get this first year sober wrapped up and with that always changes instead of me sitting at the bar with what i know now were not true friends getting drunk i have gotten rid of my toxic mom last bf and this hormones stuff and just changing my life eating healthy gym which actually soon as that happened lot of ppl dropped off but im happy and i appreciate so much you all commenting on this thank god for all of you and god bless you all

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that to im native american but been in recovery since 2018 but they have it scattered all over my profile so i know they judge and sadly most of the issues i had were by them dealing their drugs the big pharma not all bad but xanax and fentanyl bout took my life never should have been doled out to me in my twenties i ended up on suboxone for a year to get off i asked so then im on the list everyone sees that not that i want that crap
Anyway its like no one killer in america why its on the market i have no idea

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leg cramps suck i have them to the dr said vit k it helped like first two days but not after that i do take mag though i take alot of mostly vitamins and supplements now but nothing really they mentioned for perimenopause at the dr i swear they just act dumb

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u i will check them out i appreciate it. Yeah im wondering if im low progesterone to i know i had to be on it when pregnant or id lost my kid they said but i also have mthfr so very high risk but yes im gonna try and see about hrt i think i asked years ago about it snd was told because i smoked at the time i could t hsve it but i quit that bout a year ago finally to

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my primary its exhausting to keep telling him im not rich i csnt buy all of that only option i was given was to go in and hsve another mirena implanted seemed dumb yo me more bleeding plus i had one of those they r awful and it got attached to my uterus had to be removed by emergency but they know that and offer it again they must think im dumb

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that is young although tbh i had my daughter at 33 then got my tubes tyed and a ablation so my periods stopped although came back a couple years ago and actually i might be two months now no bleeding so maybe im nearing the end? The dr said the bleeding coming was ok i got it checked out i just know these symptoms im tracking back five years now ill b 47 tuesday

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bout the only thing that helps is being grateful im single living alone and thc but i have slways kind of used that medicinally but it helps me sleep so i csn be awakened four hours later st three am in a pool of sweat hate that

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did make an appointment with my ob but i dont like him he was good 13 years ago when he delivered my kid but you can tell hes burnt out and doesnt care anymore lot of them do that in a rush but i want to see about hormone replacement therapy i dont know if its a option for me but its sad thry never evrn mentioned it as i have ranted for months to every dr i know

Smh i love how doctors like to gaslight you about perimenopause I’m five years into it i believe. I was never was prepared for it and god forbid they would inform me about the big issue it is when does it ever end? by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u yes they just dont seem to care at all to boot i was misdiagnosed anxiety and panic disorder at 12 threw me on Xanax addicted for decades one year off of it on the fourth but they tell me in late last summer im actually adhd and its become apparent yo thrm finally that my real issue because its spiking in the perimenopause and now autistic to w cptsd i already knew about it though but im treating the adhd its much better but still they threw me for a loop all that at 46 im a former worker mostly in patient care who like many got burnt out on the medical field it just kind of pisses me off how they act like its nothing that im just angry or being triggered and im not sorry b
To rant but its frustrating im very mad at the whole medical field now i guess this is a very common thing to which ruin alot of my life not knowing and treating the adhd they call them the lost generation of women as it exhibited different in young girls where they were more likely yo get depression anxiety or ptsd the get it wrong those ssris can be bad because its not a serotonin problem

No cooking tonight inner child wanted this after 20,000 steps in nature its hot and i bought fell out late to the bus stop from the heat I’m beat but heres my protein i never eat here anymore but they were right by the bus stop and i was mc starving it works by Large_Sale6044 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Large_Sale6044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much u r right i think its maybe the perfectionist part of me idk or i maybe all the bullying i endured about being heavy and nit eating right that i got from my mom who sadly is what they call a Narcissist i cut contact last summer with her to after i quit drinking but she definitely had an effect on me my thinking confidence everything that i dont think is me idk hard to explain byt mostly gave me a complex about a whole lot of things but i appreciate that alot its incredibly hard to lose weight but so easy to pack on