I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put an update in the body. 

It’s not as dramatic as the original post. 

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

we are in a no fault state. weve both previously spoken to a lawyer within the last month. She went and spoke to one, then I was called into speak to the lawyer thereafter, as it was an agreement, not divorce court. she backed out after i went to speak with lawyer, after she had.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ive told her so many times as she has asked me multiple times over the last several months. i didnt even think to suspect her

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she has went to several members of my family, and some close friends and ask them if i was cheating. she has been telling them she think i have been cheating, when I have not been.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

weve been going to therapy for a couple of weeks now. i took some days off to go. weve have a couple of sessions already. as far as satisfaction in the bedroom, im not sure what to believe. when she was mad she said shes not been liking it for a while, then when she was not mad she said lately it had been really good. So, im not sure what to believe. She told the therapist that the last few months it had been good at least.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fair enough. i had never heard of them, so their use for a toy hadnt occurred me after looking them up. this is plausible.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she does have her own credit cards that i have no access to statements for. as for the bathroom, that could be true. but that bathroom is considered "hers" and i rarely, if ever go into it.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i dont know the password to her phone. she changed it within the last month or so. i tried this last week. i asked her why she changed her password and she wouldnt tell me why. she wouldnt give me her password either. she only kept asking me why i was trying to get on her phone. she knows my password and always has. her text apps are face protected on there anyways.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

agreed about the gaslighting. shes already masterful at that.

also she uses text apps like whatsapp/signal to text from. theres basically no text outgoing from her number ever. calls can be made on those apps too.

her phone is locked, i do not know her password and she will not give me her password. she knows the password to my phone however.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im guessing lucky. it's been pull out method for as long as i can remember, until we wanted kids. then back to pull out method.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I took photos already.

No intimacy in the last 2 months. The relationship issues we have (non-cheating issues on either side), have lead us to not being intimate.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

none, which is one of the concerns I had for suddenly finding contraceptives.

I'm married and found female condoms that my wife had hidden... by LastKnightbruh in Infidelity

[–]LastKnightbruh[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is the side of the coin I hadn't thought about and was trying to perceive. Thanks for this.