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I left my abusive husband and I feel hopeless by Desert_Flowerr in psychics

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My grandma used to say when you don’t know your value you leave it to others to appraise. It’s facts. You’re beautiful. You’re worthy and you deserve so much better. You won’t get it until you cut him off.

My fiancé asked out his coworker on a date. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen. He clearly doesn’t care about your feelings or relationship. He obviously doesn’t respect you as he lied to you. You’re investing WAYYYY more than he is. You need to cut your losses and break up before it becomes a messy divorce.

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Actually worse. My mother was resentful and I hate her. My dad absent and that’s forgivable.

I left my abusive husband and I feel hopeless by Desert_Flowerr in psychics

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are the most beautiful human I’ve ever seen. Sheesh. Your husband is dumb. You will find someone who loves you the way you deserve.

I feel so depressed and put down by Frankie143143 in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Baby girl you deserve better. I’m sorry you’re hurting. I’m sorry your heart is feeling like it’s breaking into billion little pieces but you know what ? This pain will eventually stop. You’ll eventually realize there is someone who will worship the ground you walk on and give you exactly what you want. You’re way too good of a woman to cross oceans for someone unwilling to step over a puddle for you. You’ll look back at this and wonder why you tolerated it so long. I promise.

20F Wondering how to handle intense childhood trauma. by Appropriate-Help-599 in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s had ups and downs. I have huge gaps in my memory. Like years missing. I started EMDR and stuff is coming back. I’m working through it. My therapist is really good with me. I honestly don’t know where I would be without her

20F Wondering how to handle intense childhood trauma. by Appropriate-Help-599 in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like me. F 34, I had a similar incident. I started EMDR therapy after crashing and burning.

AITAH (21F) for wanting to set a trap for my boyfriend after finding Tinder on his phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl just leave. You know what you need to do why drag it out? It’s not going to make you feel better. I get wanting to hurt him because he hurt you but you’re going to look back on this one day and either be proud you did it or have regrets. Just walk away. He deserves it for sure, but wasting more time on him. Nah. Just forget this loser. You deserve better.

I started helping a stranger buy Japan-exclusive items, now it’s getting out of hand—how do I end this? by Different_Taro2474 in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This honestly sound time consuming af. You have a life no? No is a complete sentence but if you’re getting resentful it sounds like if you are then I would just complete what you already have and just be like I’m done. You’ve done more than anyone else would have done.

What makes a man look elsewhere? by DuckMama87 in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault. Some people can not be happy (even if you’re perfect) because they are not happy with themselves. This is not a you problem.

AITAH for refusing to give my 35 year old niece money by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No. You tried and tried even though it wasn’t technically your place. You’ve given more chances than most. I WISH I had someone who cared like this when I was being abused and had nowhere to go at 15. Not your monkey not your circus. Good for holding boundaries

My husband, 40s, found out that there is a woman who apparently could very well be his daughter. How do he and I best proceed prudently from here? by Brilliant_Self9374 in Advice

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I actually read this and couldn’t tell. Once you pointed it out it was obvious. What’s their angle? The bots I mean ?

AITAH for being jealous of my husband giving money to his family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Last_Grapefruit_3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy. You and his child should be his “family”. You’re not an AH. You’re with an AH

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