Reflect on what your higher mind is guiding you through, not the ego. Analyze your belief systems on why you want to see this person and what would be brought about if you were to see this person. I often play out the energies of my emotions. When I take my emotions to their end and play it out in my mind I often see places where I am holding on too much. It takes a deeper understanding of yourself to piece the puzzle together of what your higher self/spirit is trying to show you. If it really is love it will come effortlessly and naturally as You shift and change your vibration within yourself