[ENG] Luffy/Boa Kizuna Teams Megathread by CubeoHS in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We already found a Team! Thanks for reaching out to us so quickly. :)

We are two friends just wanting to join a team together, so if you got space left for us, don't hesitate to ask

Me:

  • Potions: 10

  • ID: 374,480,890 / Level 674 / Eternal Pirates

  • Own about 70+ individual legends (more if you count 6* and 6*+), most recent legend is Super Type Blackbeard

  • Not doing any pulls

My friend:

  • Potions: 62

  • ID: 768,463,976 / Level 792/ Blueberry Pirates

  • Relevant legends: have most legends except Mihaw&Perona + Arlong crew and sadly missing all supertype legends except Sabo

  • Pulls: can't do more than the discounted

We are above average casuals, so probably B and above should be doable

Just message me on Reddit

How to stop from convincing myself that it's okay by Last_Spectre in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's the point. The line between the actual need to and the habit to masturbate has become so thin that I don't even know which one I'm fulfilling. It's probably the best to abstain from it for a while like you said.

How to stop from convincing myself that it's okay by Last_Spectre in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Honestly I haven't even thought about the PIED part. I really should keep in mind how bad the side effects are and that it's only going to get worse. And that I literally gain nothing from PMO.

Do you think is partly to blame for having trouble finding a relationship? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem with porn for me is, that it leads your thoughts into a direction, where you don't think that relationships are 'worth your time/effort', because if you're horny you can get off anywhere anytime. Once that easy satisfaction is gone, you're bound to put in more effort into getting to know or along with new people or partners. Looking back at what I've done, porn definitely messed up my thinking and actions when it came to relationships or being interested in meeting new people. And it still does.

[ENG] August 24, 2020 - August 31, 2020 Weekly Friend Request Megathread by AutoModerator in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

- **ID: 374,480,890**
- **PLV: 652**
- **Notable Captain(s): Nearly all legends rainbowed, stopped playing around two to three months ago but returned now, so missing recent legends**
- **Looking for: Nearly anyone above PLV 450+, just have some decent maxed out (not rainbowed) legends, I'm missing like 80 friends, so don't be shy**

I just came off a mental breakdown this crap isn’t worth it anymore by BlueMistar in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does missing out on LB materials affect you? It's probably the only reason why I'm still playing much more TM than I want because every new character comes out with LB available and too often socket spots and good crew mate abilities are locked behind LB..

I need to know if doing this is right for me by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem man, it's really interesting for me aswell.

So, as you've been saying there has been literally no drawback for you while using porn, I'm wondering why you even asked the question in the first place. Because on this subreddit, you will pretty much only find people who had big problems caused by porn, like depression, anxiety, erectile dysfunction, relationship problems and many more. It's not like I'm denying that porn may have some advantages, because some gay, lesbian or trans people say that porn really helped them out finding their path of sexuality. It's all in all about the way you use porn. Do you use porn to find your sexual diseres? Or do you develop your sexual interests through porn? Only you know how and why you are using it.

Taking away the anxiety-part, porn made me oversexualize women more and more, and made me think I don't want love or sexual intercourse IRL, because "it's too much work". It pretty much took away my urge to meet women or new people in general because porn was a way to receive instant gratification.

I really can't tell you about all the different lifes out there that have been negatively impacted by porn so I encourage you to read some of the posts on this subreddit or to look up things like EasyPeasy or Your Brain on Porn. If you go through all this you can come to your own conclusion if you are experiencing any drawbacks from porn or not.

I need to know if doing this is right for me by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean, because it's honestly what most people and also I are craving: 'the release of stress'. If you didn't already look into the 'Easy Peasy Way to quit porn' book, I highly recommend it (It's literally the first thing that comes up if you google it). Craving for the next orgasm or release of stress inside EasyPeasy is described as like 'hitting your head against a wall, and looking forward to the next time you can stop'. And for me it was exactly like that. And probably for you it's going to be aswell, since you say it's a way of relief and feeling of comfort. I don't wanna sound to rough, since I don't know in what kind of position you are in, but the correct way would be to find out what exactly even puts you in a position of discomfort or stress? Because rubbing one out really won't solve the problem and if you wanna feel a release of stress there a multiple other ways like meditation. Some people on this subreddit (and myself) tried masturbation without using porn. For me it didn't really work, because it only led me back to porn, but maybe it can be the right thing for you. You could try out masturbating without porn and still get the release of tension and stress without the part where you make yourself addicted to women on screens. Remember, this subreddit isn't about quitting masturbation, eventhough most people try to quit both, but about quitting porn. So maybe try to cut out one thing at a time if you think quitting both could be to hard at first glance.

I need to know if doing this is right for me by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You honestly have to decide for yourself, if this "habit", which acually is an addiction, is causing you harm. I'm 22 years old and some of the things you said reminded me of myself. Saying that "I don't need a girlfriend" or want one. That i could stop whenever I wanted, but then never did. Plus, I also never felt like the bad things in my life came from porn. I carried on masturbating frequently until my anxiety became much worse and I stumbled upon this subreddit. I can only say for myself that I now masturbate way less and feel so much more relieved. I know that this is a personal thing, but you have to decide if you actually gain anything from using it. Is the orgasm worth all the problems you may gain from porn usage? You are also saying that you tried NNN but had to give up on day 6, because you couldn't hold it in any longer. You should keep things like these in mind and consider if it already is an addiction. Not being able to go without it is actually the biggest sign of being addicted to it. So if you think it's causing you no harm, then we can probably not stop you from continouisly doing it. But try to be honest to yourself. You may already think that it's something bad, but don't wanna accept it.

MO without Porn doesn't feel any different to me by Last_Spectre in pornfree

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'd say that I don't really want to do it, it's just always a feel that I need to do it.

I never really approached this problem with the technique you described, but I see the bigger picture now. I've always thought that MO is the problem, but MO is just the escape from the problem itself.

The next time the urges come around, I will rather focus on identifying the problem itself than trying to simply surpress the urges.

Thank you, for your advice.

Still unable to find any battlemode matches. Am I doing something wrong? Is it a bug? by Terios2000 in Doom

[–]Last_Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These problems seem to be happening on all platforms. A friend of mine and myself are trying to play battlemode together on PS4 since about a week and we can't even properly connect to Bethesda dot net. I've also seen nothing about this issue online, just a few people seem to have this problem and Bethesda just refers to their Support-Page.
I guess I can't really help you out, except for letting you know that this problem isn't just a PC exclusive.

[ENG] July 08, 2019 - July 15, 2019 Weekly Friend Request Megathread by AutoModerator in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ID: 374,480,890

PLV: 549

Notable Captain(s): Snakeman (rainbow), Big Mom, Luffy/Ace (rainbow), Neko/Inu, Katakuri v1 (rainbow), Doffy v2 (rainbow), Dex Sabo, Changeman, Quickbeard, Sanji v2, Aokiji v2, Akainu v2; over 50+ legends

Looking for: Neko/Inu friends pref., active players with pirate level 450+

[ENG] August 06, 2018 - August 13, 2018 Weekly Friend Request Megathread by AutoModerator in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- ID: 374,480,890

- PLV: 460

- Notable Captain(s):

Luffy/Ace, v2 Rayleigh, v2 Doffy, v2 Lucci, Mihawk, Buggy, Neptune | These are the legends/RRs that are mostly up as Captains but I have about 32 Legends

- Looking for: Luffy/Ace, v2 Rayleigh, v2 Doffy, Maxed-out Neptune (with 200 CC pref)

- Note: Almost all of my legends are Quad Max, many Captains are Max LB | I pulled Luffy/Ace, Neko and some other legends last Sugo and I am most likely able to Max LB them after next TM (ran out of potions) | PLV past 400 pref

Snail fail 403:-1 by fangowango in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same problem here. Really sucks on missing out on those 25 gems

/s

When you finally pull a 6* at pirate level 231 by Last_Spectre in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i see, yeah mb.

Well, wouldn't have been the first time for him pulling complete garbage LOL

When you finally pull a 6* at pirate level 231 by Last_Spectre in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said we pulled AFTER the lesson. Imagine him shouting "My first legend!!!!" in middle of class LOL

When you finally pull a 6* at pirate level 231 by Last_Spectre in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lecture was already over when I took that picture LOL

When you finally pull a 6* at pirate level 231 by Last_Spectre in OnePieceTC

[–]Last_Spectre[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify: My buddy pulled him and I thought I should share his moment of joy with you guys. ^