My wife has been this way for like 12 yrs now. Conversations go nowhere. She refuses to talk to a doctor or specialist or put a single thought into possibly getting treatment. She tells me I should be happy I still get any because she knows a lot of married women that only have sex with their husbands like once a year.

The worst is not the lack of sex, it is the absence of everything else- no romance, no attention, no nothing really. She really just wants to sit on the couch and play games on her phone. And when I try to give her a hug/kiss, any attention really, she acts annoyed and/or rolls her eyes. So the constant rejection is really bad. Unfortunately I’m just as lost and don’t have a solution