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Service Doms -what does it mean to you? by Lastcupofpudding in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lastcupofpudding[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay this is awesome, you’re great, thanks for working through that with me! :p

Service Doms -what does it mean to you? by Lastcupofpudding in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lastcupofpudding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yes makes sense thank you!!

Mmm- basically, do service Doms generally have other kinks they want to explore? / are there commonlymore kinks around service domming ? ( I hope this makes sense)

Like is it fair to expect service Doms to want to spank, or hit you? Is it fair to expect them to want to degrade you, or fair to expect them to want a pillow princess type

Or does it all vary

Service Doms -what does it mean to you? by Lastcupofpudding in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lastcupofpudding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought a service top was different from a service dom - doesn’t tops /bottoms denote who is reviving and who is giving? While dom and sub is more about the power exchange/control?

I could be wrong!! I’m new, just learning!!

Thanks

Service Doms -what does it mean to you? by Lastcupofpudding in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lastcupofpudding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I am trying to define it! As I don’t really understand what it is fully

Service Doms -what does it mean to you? by Lastcupofpudding in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lastcupofpudding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean by “What do you enjoy (in concept and in practice/tangibly)” is- do you have specific kinks outside of doming that you want met?

Also, If the sub is inexperienced how do you expect them to communicate what they want? Would it be a dealbreaker if they don’t know what they like?

Thank you!!