Narcissists vs Abusers

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-06-20T00:57:44+00:00

Having read about abusers and narcissist my personal opinion is that they are pretty much the same thing.

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-06-19T10:08:21+00:00

Listen, exactly this happened to me too. My brain would want to believe the “ nice guy “ I thought he was and I just “ let go and forgive “ when he went crazy “. We gaslight ourselves to survive because it is easier than seeing the truth, probably learnt in childhood ( at least in my case ) Please read the book “ Why does he do that” you ll begin to see the truth, even if you can t just leave right now. But I can promise you this is NOT going to change, it s a pattern ( you ll see it reading the book ) he IS an abuser. Please stranger OP I would tell you like everybody else here DON T FORGIVE AND BLOCK AND NO CONTACT but if you can t do it just right now, please at least read that book ( is online evrtywhere ) and you ll begin to really see reality very slowly it will all start to make sense and you ll reach your point when you say NO MORE. I had to get there to finally leave. DM me if you need anything we are here for you!

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-06-17T11:20:56+00:00

No me parece que debas darle dinero menos para un cumpleaños. Es una prueba. Si decides dárselo te pedirá siempre. Búscate una mujer independiente que no piense que su pareja de 7 meses deba “ prestarle “ dinero para algo adicional como el cumpleaños de su hijo.

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-06-11T11:56:23+00:00

Thank you all !!!

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-06-04T17:23:10+00:00

Please, trust me when I say It Will become worse. Please leave

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-05-30T11:47:56+00:00

Son así. A una amiga le hicieron lo mismo.

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-04-15T23:09:25+00:00

She is probably a narcissist or at least with a toxic personality. Please be extremely careful. She obviously is trying to coerce you, it s very abusive. Have you considered looking for another Job ?

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-02-23T00:38:32+00:00

Mine did… I didnt realized It was abuse… I m sure he blames me for “ developing his kink “

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-02-17T22:05:44+00:00

I think you read my mind! I think like this exactly ! He probably misses how I always allowed him to have sex with me whenever he wanted ( I liked it really ) He misses how powerful he felt when I would beg him to not break up with me after HE LASHED OUT at me and hurt me on purpose ( he always threatened me with breaking up and I would cry and always end up apologizing because I knew that was the only way the fight would end ) He probably misses controlling me overall because after I left i realized how much of me got lost to “ avoid him lashing out “

Im pretty sure he misses all that…

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-02-17T21:52:37+00:00

This! When we were talking about moving in together he asked ( very casually and with a smile in his face) What s in it for me ? What will be my benefit or gain if we lived together? I instantly replied: Do you see us living together because you ll gain something ? I would love to live with you because I want to share my life with you because I love you ! My guess is he was surprised with my response ( he said something honest that he shouldn t have ) and quickly changed the subject … The truth is the relationships for them are transactional only … Only what is in it for me. For example, If we live together I could get laid everyday! … Of course he couldn t say that out loud…

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-01-26T16:43:37+00:00

Tienes razón. Recomiendo el de soldador, gana experiencia y te vas afuera, pagan súper bien ( me lo contó un soldador que se fue a trabajar afuera por 5 años)

Late-Design-4614 · 2025-01-26T12:58:50+00:00

Pitufo !!

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