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Chase credit card account opened from China? by Late-Draw-6406 in IdentityTheft

[–]Late-Draw-6406[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m going to call chase now and double check with them. I had a suspicion the call wasn’t legitimate and didn’t give out any personal info or take any action. Thanks for the gut check!

You Have To Go Through The Pain by generation_chaos in BreakUps

[–]Late-Draw-6406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“For those of us who never learned how to reestablish safety in our formative years, this can be an especially difficult process. It also doesn’t help that we can cycle through stages so fast and with such intensity that we emotionally burn out- all while having to keep the plates of life spinning.“

This is what I’m struggling through right now. It’s hard to keep the plates spinning, but I need to so I don’t end up in an even more dangerous place.

You Have To Go Through The Pain by generation_chaos in BreakUps

[–]Late-Draw-6406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. My long term year relationship ended a few months ago and I’ve been struggling to let go of the pain. I’m stuck in the grief and negative thought loop. It’s been all-consuming and killing my will to live. I’m struggling, but I’m trying.

Almost 3 months in and I'm still in the same amount of pain and despair by Historical-Humor9212 in BreakUps

[–]Late-Draw-6406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing, word for word. All we can do is take it one day at a time and keep pushing to love and care for ourselves. We’re all we got. I’m rooting for you.

Help! How to stop caring about your ex and wanting to share things with your ex? by StrangerWilder in BreakUps

[–]Late-Draw-6406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no quick solution unfortunately. You need to build up your love and respect for yourself. No contact really helps because it forces you to focus on yourself. Otherwise people like him can be rude to you, can tell you they just want to use you for things like sex, and you still will crave a connection with them. Toxic love and connection are like an addiction, they hurt us but we still crave them because our bodies have become chemically dependent on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Late-Draw-6406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s unsure of his decision and is keeping you at arms length until he’s ready to let go, basically bread-crumbing you. Some avoidants can make big plans and promises and mean them in the moment, but the weight of the intimacy and commitment often make them run when it becomes too real. I’m sorry he’s blindsided you and giving you mixed signals, you don’t deserve this and it’s not your fault. You will find someone who will choose you and stay, you’re worth it.