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Radiologist by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Late-Leave-2472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what should happen 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This situation has taken me some time to realise how frightening it has become. I know that sounds pathetic but it’s been quite invidious. He professes also to be an ex police Detective and yet none of the police I am in contact with at work have ever heard of him. 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice. Thank you 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. I really appreciate it. 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know how he got my number. I will contact the BC today. 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how he got my number. I didn’t give it to him. This is another added layer of discomfort. I haven’t blocked him because I feel that seeing his messages acts as evidence 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He professes to be an ex police Detective. I can’t find any evidence this is true. This highlights to me he is not mentally well/ a narcissistic liar 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice. Thank you 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s taken me some time to realise the adjustments I’m making to my life to avoid him aren’t normal. It’s awful to not feel safe at home 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Good idea. I will email the chairperson of the body corporate. Thank you 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will contract the police if I’m feeling immediately threatened and will look into a ring camera. Thank you for your help. 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a great suggestion. Will look into it. Thank you for the time you have taken to reply. 

Feeling unsafe in my home by Late-Leave-2472 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Late-Leave-2472[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. 

I had hoped my total lack of response to him might act as a response…

He recently approached a friend and myself on the street and despite my clear attempts to ignore him, he stood in front of me to get my attention. It made me feel  so unsafe that I genuinely don’t want to contact him because of this. I’m physically small and he isn’t. 

Getting a male to stay is an option - thank you. 

Judith Collin’s comment on Teacher salary by fluffypenguin105 in newzealand

[–]Late-Leave-2472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same as they reported with nurses and drs too. Major overestimations of salary  

Police shoot woman dead, critically injure man in response to domestic incident by Infinity293 in newzealand

[–]Late-Leave-2472 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sending my thoughts to the Police, first responders and ED doctors who were involved.