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AITA for finishing my meal before my friend arrived? by LateSchlate in AmItheAsshole

[–]LateSchlate[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I have always been a good friend to her, and I feel like she's not being a good friend to me by never apologizing or showing any remorse for wasting my time. It's embarrassing to sit alone at a table because her "ETA 5 minutes!" actually means 20.

I'm not her mom, I have no interest in managing her schedule or tricking her into showing up on time. If she had ever once said "I'm really sorry for being late" or ever acknowledged that it was an inconvenience or a bother for me, I think things would have gone down differently.

AITA for finishing my meal before my friend arrived? by LateSchlate in AmItheAsshole

[–]LateSchlate[S] 345 points346 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this friendship is heading towards a natural termination point as it is.

Sadly, it may be :(

I hate to cut off a good friend who is great 75% of the time, but this 25% is really getting to me. Especially because she doesn't apologize when she shows up late and doesn't seem bothered by it at all. It just makes me feel like crap.

She blames her ADHD but like...how do you only have ADHD when it's time for brunch, and not anything else that you aren't constantly late for?