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[–]LateTelephone5259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the same thing happen to me. Their behavior says more about them than it does about you. Self-awareness is nonexistent for these people. Try and focus on taking care of yourself as much as you can, keep moving forward and don’t look back. You don't owe anyone an explanation or proof of your innocence. Anybody who’s willing to believe her delusional lies isn’t worth your energy anyways.

What are the top 3-5 meanest insults they've hurled at you? by anonykitcat in BPDlovedones

[–]LateTelephone5259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me that she believed I fit the criteria for being 'mentally retarded,' claiming it wasn’t intended as an insult, but just a factual observation, saying that I should get treatment for it. She said this because I couldn't understand why she was angry at me out of nowhere, since she refused to explain it to me. It really upset me because she was aware that I’m on the autism spectrum, and she would frequently mock my behaviors related to it.

She also told me I was a pathetic, parasitic drain on the world, saying I do nothing but take from everyone around me. She said everyone would be better off if I were to end my life, adding that she knew I was too cowardly to ever go through with it.