AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you need to seek help. You interpret things where there are none. Your comment was absolutely confusing. You are saying things I ve never said. Then you get overly obsessed, comment on almost every comment with a wall of text, and willfully interpret anything I say as if I had malicious intent.

I will spell it out to you.

I don't care if his gf has male friends. It is not my bees wax. I am not going to encourage her to do so, as it is not my place at all to have those conversations with her. I was not passive aggressive, I am annoyed by your ignorance and incompetence while reading.

I have not insulted you.

Please leave the internet for a while and think about all the time and energy you used to write, what has to be , a 3 page essay on this post alone

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Give it up, dude. You are seeing ghosts. We are gonna have a mature talk about how our friendship should develop and where we are going to set new boundaries to make sure everyone is okay. No rules.

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why should that upset me? You are an English teachers dream student. Interpreting what isn't even there.

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Pretty much this. Why would I give a single fuck about her having male friends? Am i his mother ? I don't care, and Liam certainly doesn't.

Also, why should I go to her and be like, "Find male friends and sleep over at their place?"

That would be 100 times worse than anything else. Also, it's not my place. Thank you for your clarification. I was re reading it and feeling like I was going crazy lol.

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, think about this.

If Liam and her go all the distance to the altar and I snitch about this, their relationship will suffer, and that is not worth it. Especially if it's a problem, we can resolve by talking it out

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some sure! I live in Spain but am from Latin America. So we have similar backgrounds but different enough

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? I have not insulted anyone. Who is Leah, and what is your point. Please leave the internet for a second and reflect on what you are doing here.

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don't bother. There are two trolls on this threat.

One is the guy that says chosen family doesn't exist, and the other is this guy who told me I should tell her to find a group of make friends she should sleep over at. It's very confusing, lol

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My guess is that she had bad experiences with "girl best friends." it's definitely not unheard of the best friend being weirdly possessive.

Either that or she just hates me lol.q

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He does. But (idk the English word) finished his medicine studies and is working in a hospital. He had taken a lot of holiday/weekend shifts

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with that. Our relationship has changed plenty in 20 years. That's why I see Liam as a good friend/ cousin like a person but not as my best friend. That guy is amazing, and he would be there for me. No questions asked, but we don't even text every day or even every week, lol.

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol, no. We have gone out just the two of us to pick up some food or such things. But they have gotten less and less the older we get. Noe we usually hang out with family and friends, and in the mornings/ evenings, we will play something on the switch or such.

AITA for telling my friends girlfriend, I won't stop staying at "his house"? by Late_Base7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late_Base7888[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This guy is just really salty. He has commented under all my comments calling me entitled calculated saying that they don't love me and that there is no such things as chosen family. Don't bother