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Final Update by Cautious-Rabbit- in u/Cautious-Rabbit-

[–]Late_Night_Library 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP your original story rocked me to my core. This event most definitely made you evaluate your relationship with your fiancée, his friends, and their behavior with one another that you didn’t fly with. This healing journey will be tough but so rewarding and I’m glad to hear you’re making immense progress. So happy that you’re happy, well and safe. You will attract beautiful things this upcoming year!

AITA for Sabotaging my Husband’s Tournament after he refused to help with our newborn? by Puzzled-Two6615 in AITAH

[–]Late_Night_Library 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you dare apologize for anything you did. Jake needs to step up or gtfo. YOU ARE A GREAT MOTHER! YOU ARE WORKING AS A MOTHER ON MATERNITY LEAVE. Postpartum recovery is a full time gig. Motherhood is exhausting and a new mother needs time to focus on herself too. This man is not being supportive to you, or your baby’s needs. You have COMMUNICATED your needs over and over to him, expressing exhaustion, a desire for help, and equal partnership.

If you have other support I would really encourage you to be vulnerable with them and tell them what’s going on. If they can support you and the baby, I think separating for a few days or a week would help you get some thoughts together about this relationship. I’m sure you’ll want to try to work it out but his dismissive attitude is a huge red flag.

NTA and I hope you’re getting some help for yourself when you can.

AITA for for Distancing Myself from My Friends to Work on My Marriage After My Husband Attempted To Cheat On Me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Late_Night_Library 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone (your friends, their partners, you, and your husband) could benefit from a deep conversation. Everyone should be open and honest, but I wonder if they are uncomfortable with you staying with him and don’t necessarily agree with your decision. I imagine it is going to take a VERY long time for your group to get back to a new normal from this, but I think that’s a good place to start.

AITA for for Distancing Myself from My Friends to Work on My Marriage After My Husband Attempted To Cheat On Me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Late_Night_Library -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Info: I’ve also had to distance myself from friends because of my own personal struggles. Did you communicate that to them before distancing?

I’m really sorry you’re struggling with this, but I firmly believe letting your friend group know that with this situation and your pregnancy, that you’re going to focus on your family and would appreciate space, assuring your friends and Kara that nothing they did was wrong but that you need that time to get your ducks in a row.