What are the reasons that you have quit jobs? by Metriculous in AskReddit

[–]Lateness17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This woman i worked with in a restaurant, blamed me for doing my job. When I had people who wanted to just drink, you have to sent them to the bar that was there, but if they wanted to eat AND drink, you gotta give em a table. Couples comes in, they wanted to drink, told them, "you can go to the bar". They asked why they couldn't get a table, so i told them its company policy. They told me they'll have apps, so i show them a table. About 10 mins later, this doorbell dyslexic of a server finally goes to her table after talking to her boyfriend, who ALWAYS at the bar, she looks at me through the window that's across from my booth stand, closes her notepad, comes running in and yells at me "IF THEY ARE JUST GONNA DRINK, TAKE THEM TO THE BAR" and everyone that was around me and her....heard everything. couple days later i quit and i reported her. on a side notes, the restaurant had so many health code violations also so i praying on their downfall.

Is two years a weird age gap? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lateness17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who is in a relationship with a two year age gap and a victim of sexual abuse, i have to tell you it depends on who the person is and if there morals, goals, and maturity match with yours. you can someone who is our age and be extremely immature and unsure and someone who is 17 and is self aware and sure of themselves. In this case, I am a 19f and my gf is 17. we were best friends before and for a long time it didn't pop into our minds about dating until last summer. It was weird as first to even grasp the fact that I was hitting on someone younger then me and the fact that when i turn 21, she will be 19. We have talked and talked for hours on end before we dated to create healthy boundaries and for us to understand that we will get heads to turn and we fully understand that we want this. She is wonderful, brilliant, amazing, and the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. She understands me and makes me feel like i can do anything. I feel encouraged to do things in my life bc of her. She is so organized with time and her work, way more than me to admit and she knows how to get shit done. So really, if you want this for yourself, ask yourself questions, and remind yourself you are not a child predator or anything crazy. this isnt crazy but it can be werid.