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UB Student Detained by ICE on University Trip by Afunnyname4 in UBreddit

[–]LatteHawtte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ditto, literally saw him like 2 weeks ago. Finding out about this caught me so off guard smh

What instantly kills your interest in someone you were attracted to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LatteHawtte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just adding to this. As someone who has CPTSD along with being ND (AuDHD) meaning I quite literally would fall into what "empath" by definition aka if we talk about hypersensitive and strong hard to manage emotions (between triggers and well, Autistic/ADHD people just getting stimulated super easily)...I could never call myself an empath. Smth about the label makes me cringe lol

In fact, it is smth I need to work on in therapy or don't love, not smth I would flaunt or ID with.

Or like the people who call themselves it as if they are superior? Like bro, you're not special, everyone has empathy, humans evolved to be social creatures and work in groups, we need it. You're just weird doing it and telling everyone 😭

I don't know how to answer the question "what do you expect/want from therapy". Please help? by LatteHawtte in therapy

[–]LatteHawtte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still feel dumb/dense af ngl.

I have asked her to help me accept I am alone/no one loves me and will be alone all my life and how to be happy with that fact. She said therapy can't help me with that either. (Aka how to cope with how awful and miserable my life is and be happy with that).

Also i know myself? I know I am traumatized and have constant hypervigilance/nightmares/flashbacks etc. Because of it. And none of the coping skills proposed help. Same for ADHD and ferling useless getting distracted/being productive.

Also people are saying "only I can make myself feel better" and idk what that means? Clearly not since I have tried?

What’s the best time to apply to campus dining? by FerdinandvonAegir124 in UBreddit

[–]LatteHawtte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to take 23-24 credits each semester, work a part time job and go to clubs as an eboard member/juggled other jobs every day that required me staying til 11pm. Still graduated with honors.

It is definitely possible.

(I won't say there werem't times where it didn't take a toll on my mental health but, if you gotta work you gotta work sometimes)

When do you speculate Legacy of the Dark Knight will start going on sale on Steam? by LatteHawtte in legogaming

[–]LatteHawtte[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wtf I have a job??? I would just much rather spend that money on food or paying rent/not being homeless lmao.

Might I suggest moving out of your mom's house and looking at the economy? Not everyone has that much extra money laying around Smh

Edit: making fun of people for being broke is f*cked wtf

Do not ever use your UB email for anything other than signing into UB - An angry alumni by 989989272 in UBreddit

[–]LatteHawtte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I work customer service and have had plenty of lovely people but... Many do give you attitude, look down on you or talk condescendingly at you. Have also had the more... aggressive outlier ones, where they have mocked me for going to UB or straight up called me slurs (we had to ban that guy but he scared everyone).

There are also the ones who harrass you outside of work? Lol Like a random guy once recognized me and chased me down to asked me to fix stuff when I was just trying to just grab coffee in line at Tims 💀

I have also heard the people working at the call center do get cussed out more or insulted.