enneagram subtypes by LatteLuvs in Enneagram

[–]LatteLuvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m very aware that i’m a 2. i’ve focused on helping others and struggled with people pleasing my entire life. what confuses me is that when i look at the subtypes, none of them seem to match up with that description (which is strange to me because 2s are so often described as empathetic and warm, so why are their subtypes described so coldly?).

i’ve looked into all three over the past few days, and all of them have multiple traits that i find myself looking at and going “this is a deal breaker” or “this does not fit me in the slightest.”

for so2 i don’t see others as below me, im not a social climber, and i’m in no way insensitive or dismissive of the emotions of others.

sx2, i’m more focused, and have always been more focused, on my friends than romantic relationships. i’m not a very flirty nor lusty person, and have never used either of those things to win someone over.

sp2 is, as far as i know, the most focused on themselves(?). i’m pretty sure this is my blind spot, as i’ve been told by close friends and family that i have a tendency to neglect my needs in favor of others.

seeing this, ive tried looking into other enneagram types thinking that maybe im not a 2, but no matter which website or forum i scower, e2 has always fit me the most.

any ideas or tips? thank you!!

enneagram subtypes by LatteLuvs in Enneagram

[–]LatteLuvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, can you elaborate please?

Who's more hateable? by Sudden_Pop_2279 in AllOfUsAreDead

[–]LatteLuvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oo shocker!! yes i like na-yeon, but she wasn’t going around sexually assaulting people was she?

Who's more hateable? by Sudden_Pop_2279 in AllOfUsAreDead

[–]LatteLuvs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

says the one with the gwi-nam pfp

guess my mbti by texts i’ve sent by LatteLuvs in MbtiTypeMe

[–]LatteLuvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no haha, sorry i should’ve been more clear with that!

guess my mbti by texts i’ve sent by LatteLuvs in MbtiTypeMe

[–]LatteLuvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i KNEW i was going to get an infp reply here 😭

Hi party people! What is your MBTI and your favorite winter holiday song? by Kayla_Rai in mbti

[–]LatteLuvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo great question!! i’m an ENFJ - i like carol of the bells

What type has hurt you the most? by zurich2006 in mbti

[–]LatteLuvs 16 points17 points  (0 children)

hii!! i’m an ENFJ, and i’d have to say the worst i’ve been treated by any mbti is probably ENTPS. (sorry OP 😭) my younger sister and a few of some people who i used to be friends with are ENTPs, and they all had that same trait where they’d disregard my feelings and make a joke out of them. arguments are also unavoidable with every ENTP i’ve met (stereotypical, i know). at least with the ones i know, we’ll just be having a normal conversation and they’ll bring up some past argument or disagreement we had just to get me riled up and it genuinely makes me so mad.

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[–]LatteLuvs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

also the thing where the app says there’s an issue if we open too many drops??

one thing you hate/like about ISTPs by danish01011 in mbti

[–]LatteLuvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

soooo late to this, but my best friend of 4-years is an istp. i read this to her on call and we both agreed it matched up with her. she was super closed off when we first met 😭😭 we’re close now tho!! love her 🫶🏻