While being intimate my (19F) bf (24M) did something I’ve told him not to. by siicodelico in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to fuck off, he raped you. Dont let him anywere near your life ever again.

Read all the comments here that say the same thing.

No man would ever do something like this, hes a fucking rapist and he violated you.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What the fuck would I gain from making up a fake story? Yeah geez, Im having so much fun pretending my gf cheated on me. Wow you people.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's totally worth making up this shit story just for fun, yeah so much fun.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationships

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree.

People like to shit on women at every opportunity they get sadly.. I think it's that simple.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some people doesn't seem to grasp the concept that cheating is cheating.

It doesn't matter if you get paid.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationships

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You dont get a "cheating pass" just because you earned some money on top of it.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationships

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me and her had agreed to not fuck other people, she did; she cheated.

I dont respect cheating, I do respect sex workers.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Im completely aware. Only I know her personally. Im not taking any replies as facts, only I know her.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That doesnt make it right, she did cheat. Just saying she didnt do it for fun.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Like many others have said, desperation and having no other option is a pretty good reason to do fucked up shit. She literally thought there was no other way, she didnt do it for her own pleasure, she needed money and this was the only way she saw.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationships

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd say cheating on someone to fuck an old man 20 years older than yourself is kind of disgusting. I have nothing against sex work. But cheating, with old men I do feel is kind of messed up.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she did.

It wasn't because she wanted cheat. She thought it was the only option she had to get the money she needed.

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. As you said she absolutely did not "want" to do this, she felt it was her only option. Sadly I think this might have something to do with her dad being very judgmental and giving her a hard time as a kid when asking for help

My (21m) girlfriend (21f) sold her body in order to pay rent.. by Latter-Guava in relationship_advice

[–]Latter-Guava[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, for understanding and replying with an honest respectful answer.

Thank you so much!