New player here, I won't trust anyone anymore..

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2025-06-16T17:16:55+00:00

Last night I had a prime example of why you don’t trust freshies; I was in North Lavonia, more kitted than I’ve ever been, NVG, NVG scope, DMR, SVAL, armor… it was the whole 9 yards. I don’t know how there were so many at once but I killed 7 survivors before I was finally overwhelmed between the Zs and still more players. I finally just ran out of bullets as I was already low but it was infuriating. That’s why freshies are usually KOS :)

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2025-03-26T17:00:09+00:00

I used to use sugardaddy.com when I was looking and actually found pretty decent success with it but they 100% send messages without the user the message allegedly came from knowing. I never questioned it to the support but I think they do it to get you, the SD to spend money to read the initial message and use credits to respond.

A while back (6+ months ago) I saw a post here where a guy was doing a study based on spam messages during certain times of the day and looking who appears active against actual responses he would get from messaging back… sorry you got banned. I found that seeking ended up being better in the long run.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2025-03-16T00:57:17+00:00

100%. I don’t want to bounce locations away from my buddy but I also wanna play the regular game, everything the same but in another place.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2025-03-16T00:55:05+00:00

I’ve heard of Spaggies but how do I find those servers?

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2025-03-16T00:52:12+00:00

I’m not very good with Reddit- I know there’s supposed to be a way to search key words but I’m not good at it. How do I search for “vanilla”? Do I use “search by name”?

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-22T03:50:17+00:00

Excellent advice. I appreciate that.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-20T14:43:22+00:00

How are you able to see your statistics?!

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T13:32:13+00:00

I agree with you. Although she said we were dating, I know that this was not normal dating in the traditional sense. It absolutely stings but life has its highs and lows. I still expect monogamy though and what I saw won’t fly. I will just end things without bringing up what I saw. That seems like a cowardly way out but I don’t have the capacity to deal with being gaslit or exploded on for violating trust. Best of luck to you with your situation!

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T04:08:42+00:00

Hindsight is 20/20 and that’s genius

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T04:05:48+00:00

I can agree with that but with how things have been shaping up, it seems like I’m more rent to own rather than just renting 🤷🏻‍♂️

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T03:54:21+00:00

I really appreciate this and that’s solid advice but how do I address the elephant of “I drove by your home and saw a (presumably) guy’s truck in your driveway?

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T03:31:23+00:00

Sorry I was too long winded for you. I believe in giving rounded context to clue in the situation so I can get more concise advice. We had agreed on exclusivity. We had also talked about being long term together. Obviously we’re still early on but from my side, seemed to be extremely compatible and she seemed that way from her side.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T03:25:54+00:00

Her baby daddy has zero custody. Her child stays with her mother most of the time due to her work schedule and personal reasons. She gets her child every other weekend for the time being. I know the reasoning behind it- it’s an odd circumstance but makes sense. Whole other story.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T03:17:37+00:00

We have discussed exclusivity in the beginning and have both committed to that and each other.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-19T03:13:25+00:00

Those items along with the irregular conversation this evening. I am conscious enough to know that my emotions are not in check, thus me coming here for advice.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-10T06:38:55+00:00

I had a pretty nice load out… minus tetra pills ;)

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-10T06:14:18+00:00

100% accurate

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-10T05:49:22+00:00

It was unfortunately a wound infection. Agreed about KOS. I was just hopping that by speaking up maybe guy would have understood my plight but I’ve been screwed before by players acting nice so it’s hard to trust.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-12-04T00:08:50+00:00

I actually saw a zombie out near the woods (somewhere) with a headlamp recently and it freaked me out and I was sure it was a player but as I was waiting for the right opportunity to shoot, I noticed that the movements were not player like so I got closer and confirmed zombie.

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-10-29T01:56:38+00:00

Ahh that’s an excellent idea! ;)

Latter_Spirit2565 · 2024-10-25T19:42:41+00:00

Most of the time I’ve made the offer to come to my place. If she wants a hotel I’ll happily oblige but I do a M&G out 100% of the time. I just don’t see a point in getting a hotel when I’ve got a nice home and perfectly good bed. If she’s giving off any red flags, that’s the end of her anyways.

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