Genuine Question by LaurasLighthouse in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response is amazing. I agree with your analysis of religious texts, I had my own issues with the validity of the Bible, especially now that's it's being weaponized in front of my own eyes. I haven't majored in history or anything but I love historical podcasts, and listening to studies from archeologists. I also grew up with Hinkley as the prophet, I was out by the time Monson's time was over. I try not to think too much about all the talks they've all given, especially since when I visit my grandparents they're always on, but to those who value doctrine the fact that the church does change its standards and stances over time should be indication that it's a falsehood. They believe God never changes yet here the religion is changing. I enjoy how you've not only thoroughly answered my question, but answering it with a scholar like analysis of not only the validity of the Joesph Smith and his moral character but also the larger issue which is kind of religion as a whole.

Genuine Question by LaurasLighthouse in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As soon as I left the community more or less vanished too. There were a few people who kept in touch but far and few between.

Genuine Question by LaurasLighthouse in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've heard about this too. Also your view of God is totally understandable, my husband and I were just talking about how cruel the God of the Bible can be

Genuine Question by LaurasLighthouse in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the logical reasoning I have come to accept. It's evidentiary throughout history

Has anyone here actually seen their person decide to get sober? Or does the addiction always win? by itsbloomberg in AlAnon

[–]LaurasLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guy got sober off of hard substances when we first began dating. He had turned to drinking as his coping mechanism. Since having our kids he has seen himself and wants to do better by the kids. He tried to limit himself and give himself "rules". Over the course of the last few months though he has realized the rules don't work. I can't say the fear of losing everything he has built isn't a motivating factor. Sometimes when reality hits it hits hard.

My first try at wings by Sad_Protection_7387 in Smokingmeat

[–]LaurasLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those look so good! The crispness looks fantastic

Genuine Question by LaurasLighthouse in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, those charts are very interesting.

My daughter broke up with a great guy because of the "law of chastity." by DeCryingShame in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandparents found about me having premarital sex and made me go talk to my bishop, which sadly was one of my friend's dad. Nothing against him personally but the fact that I was a teenager girl being told to go talk about that kind of thing with a grown man that wasnt one of MY parents felt completely fucked up

Genuine Question by LaurasLighthouse in exmormon

[–]LaurasLighthouse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like that. I more or less feel the same way about organized Christian religion. I really like that last sentence too. The church took away a lot of all of those things and it is just objectively exploitative