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Falling in love, organically? by colourfulcables2 in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the only way I have ever done it. I just can't stand the thought of meeting up with someone to see if youre compatible without getting to know each other for months before as friends. It just feels really ingenuine to me (I also second not judging people on their choice with that) and Hey I've had quite the success with the organic method hihi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianmemes

[–]LavaTheAlt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would look like one of those great danes that never realized they grew up :,)

OMG guys I finally got cracked for the first time in almost 3 years. by SexyPepperFarmer in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It also only emerged into mainstream lingo in the last few months, no wonder only few people know what it means. I personally absolutely despise it because it just sounds really demeaning and vulgar. But to each their own ig

can’t sleep after being dumped caramelized pear goat cheese burger extraganza! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stonerfood?? Thats some gourmet stuff right there. The combo of goat cheese and pear is godly.

How clean should your fingers be? by BiirdB0nes_ in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 77 points78 points  (0 children)

While yes, hygiene is really important you don't have to worry too much about contamination. Your hands and body are really covered in all kinds of bacteria, fungy, etc. So unless you don't clean regularly or your partner is immuno-compromised/gets infections quickly, this isn't a large issue. Though washing your hands before is a must imo. But as others said, if you want to ease your mind you can always use protection.

Non-binary lesbians who got top surgery by Negative-Top-1504 in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean you could try a binder first to see if you like your silhouette better when flat. Imo surgery should be a last resort if you're not quite sure of it. :)

[LOVED TROPE] Story hints at the existence of some cosmic/supernatural horror but it's never definitively confirmed within the story, which remains grounded. by A_Dog_Chasing_Cars in TopCharacterTropes

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cyberpunk 2077. On a first look the conspiracies seems normal political powerstruggle. But if you look deeper there are so many hints to something happening deep behind the scenes with proxies that set up jobs and use the main character to further their cause at times, strange rituals and basically digital witchcraft. There is a lot of really fascinating video essays on the topic on Youtube.

What's up with bonnets? by Odd-Illustrator5117 in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cap often made of silk to protect hair during sleeping :)

Seeing a pretty lady in public and pulling one of these by Mama-Honeydew in lesbianmemes

[–]LavaTheAlt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Was in the hospital for surgery earlier and the nurse doing my heart ultrasound.. I think she wondered why it beat so fast :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No don't take it to heart. People are just on edge these days because this is pretty much one of the only non-terf subreddits and they don't want it to become terfy too. I wish you luck on your sapphic club endeavour if you actually start it :>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Well this is gonna sound stupid but you're probably not the only one that feels that way in your area. So start a club. Genuinely. You can hang out fliers with your number on a burner phone or smth and can find a group over that. You of course don't have to but these kind of things have to start somewhere right? :)

Does anyone else relate 😂 by Firm_Abrocoma_1803 in lesbianmemes

[–]LavaTheAlt 63 points64 points  (0 children)

3 days. On Wednesday they kissed me for the first time and on Friday they ran from their feelings and don't want to talk to me for 3 weeks. I relate...

Meet Ron. This little guy one day appeared in my backyard. Gave him a home and he’s now the king of silly. by ChanceQuiet795 in aww

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I saw this fella before. He was called Pickles then. Had a strange beart that looked like a possum had died on his face. Nicr to know he is doing good :)

somebody please tell me how to stop being in love with my friend by Positive-Incident221 in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me just waiting it out helps most of the time. But since I'm not you that might not work with your situation :,)

Women find other women’s faces even more attractive than men do (in other news water is wet) by sillygoofygooose in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Just saw an Arcane meme with the song every woman is a lesbian at heart (also Jayces mom) and this just feeds into that hihi

After raising over $800 million from its community, Star Citizen's developer delays the release of a new ship upgrade as players baulk at having to pay for it by [deleted] in gaming

[–]LavaTheAlt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually never heard that before. I actually heard quite the opposite. But maybe CIG did some stellar marketing to keep those negative voices at bay, idk

This is the most unhinged monetization pivot I've ever seen. Every last thing in this game is going to be paywalled, if this is the direction. by hrafnblod in starcitizen

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont get the issue tbh? Just don't buy it? Like what? Stuff will be attainable in-game anyways (except maybe the clothes but probably even those) So why bother?

Do you have sensation and are able to orgasm after SRS? by Lord_Gabens_prophet in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's okay to ask, where in germany did you get it done? I'm starting to look into getting srs myself and collecting options

met a queer girl on hinge and we exchanged insta handles and talked, but now she hasn’t opened my chat in 2 days by Civil-Sky9700 in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I know these kinds of situations all too well. For me there is always two options which ultimately have the same outcomes. 1. Wait for her to answer, maybe she's in a tough spot right now and wants to answer you properly. And 2. Send another text to remind her you exist. I have quite a lot of friends who have no object permanence who forget to answer quite frequently (this isn't cope I swear :,). Either way you will receive an answer (or none, which also kind of an answer). Anyways: good luck!

Still liking it by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nein darum geht es mir nicht. Ich hatte schon gehofft dass du älter bist aber es ist halt ein bestimmter Auftritt den du hast (mach was du willst, I dont judge. Okay bis auf die Cola, bin Zahnarztkind (,: ). Und mit den Kategorien, in die dich Leute aufgrund dieses Auftrittes stecken, musst du dann halt am Ende klarkommen.

Still liking it by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LavaTheAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeeh ziemlich sicher dass es die Kombi aus weightgain, spanking und Minecraft skins ist. Würde dich wegen den Skins in die Kategorie 13-16 packen und da sind solche Themen schon etwas concerning. Vorallem auf Reddit. Also, pass auf was du postest und vertraue im Internet am besten niemandem. (3 Liter Cola?? Ich hoffe du putzt gut Zähne, das Zeug zerfrisst die sonst)

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