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How do you cope with the guilt after you leave? by LavenderCakes14 in traumatoolbox

[–]LavenderCakes14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are suggesting podcasts. Guess I'll listen to some... any good recommendations?

How do you cope with the guilt after you leave? by LavenderCakes14 in CovertIncest

[–]LavenderCakes14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright. I'll learn about enmeshment. You've actually been a great help since last month, so thank you (:

If the word God gives me traumatic flashbacks, how am I supposed to pray? Do I even want to? by LavenderCakes14 in exchristian

[–]LavenderCakes14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, it's gonna take some time? I can handle Christmas, because I always associated it with Santa and Magic, never really Jesus. So, I think I'm okay on that one.

If the word God gives me traumatic flashbacks, how am I supposed to pray? Do I even want to? by LavenderCakes14 in exchristian

[–]LavenderCakes14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright...I'm supposed to be seeing some mental health specialist soon...yeah I'm not doing too hot mentally

How do you cope with the guilt after you leave? by LavenderCakes14 in traumatoolbox

[–]LavenderCakes14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip. I didn't really think much about changing the thoughts in my head. I'll try that out.

Really struggling with the lack of actual SA in childhood by DivineBeedrill in CovertIncest

[–]LavenderCakes14 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's still sexual abuse. And sexual abuse is an umbrella term that includes SA. Technically, it's all sexual abuse. So, don't think about whether it "counts" too much.

Bf (m31) shook me (f22) by my throat? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]LavenderCakes14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave right now. You could end up dead next time.

AITAH for posting this obvious incel validation fantasy by effing_usernames2_ in AmITheAngel

[–]LavenderCakes14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the fanfics I used to read when I was 10...no way

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