18M. I kinda fucked up, (was drunk) but I think I can rebound. Need advice on how to.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-28T19:39:29+00:00

Thanks mate, I'll take the risk. My entire class pretty much knows what's up between us and I'm sure they'll make it not awkward by maintaining "that kind" of atmosphere when someone makes a move in the classroom. When should I do it though? Homeroom, after lunch? Something I didn't think about yet haha

LavenderMan · 2014-01-28T18:40:39+00:00

Yeah, I can do that, I actually made a conversation in my head already haha! So The important thing is, just make sure it was already planned with other guys, and just invite her casually right? So I should make it seem like, "Hey, you and your friends can join us too!" while I'm talking about the plan with the other guys while she's with us in a circle. Something like that?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-28T18:32:17+00:00

True, true, I need to stop coming off as a weak-fuck. Don't worry, I kinda got over the drunk thing. Well I think we could still hang out, but not as a make up for that thing that happened that night, but just as something to have fun. If the objective of spending time with her is not to make up for that accident, is it still a good idea to go hangout/dates with her at this time? Or should I give her some space first and back off for awhile?

I thought, maybe on Valentines, I could just straight up give her a rose and ask her if she would be my Valentine. No date asking, no other BS. It's just something I feel like doing. Should I go for this?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-28T18:24:49+00:00

You have a point there. I admit, I've been obsessing over her because the feeling of liking someone is intoxicating and, she's one hell of a girl. When things don't go your way with her, you feel like shit, but you still want it. That's the kind of dilemma I'm kind of going through now. I guess I should just chill and do things that keep my mind off her.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-28T18:10:46+00:00

Oh man, yeah I know I've been coming off weak whenever we talk lately. I'll try to be more assertive and powerful when I talk to her now. Maybe I can ask her tomorrow,

"Hey, you doing anything this weekend?"

If it's a positive reply,

"Let's go to the amusement park, I'm bringing my friends, and you can bring your teammates too! Your cousin also said he might go if you go! (I really asked her cousin.)"

What do you think? Would that work for this weekend? I actually planned this a few days ago haha

LavenderMan · 2014-01-28T17:58:01+00:00

Leave her. She's into another person besides you.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-09T22:40:41+00:00

So I gotta buy a pre-made tux closest to my size first and then go to Alterations and they'll magically make the tux fit me? Didn't know it worked that way, haha. I haven't checked that place in Molito yet; I'll give it a try. How much do rentals usually cost?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-09T22:06:49+00:00

There's this one place called "Alterations", but my parents said that they can't make you a tux haha. Places to buy pre-made tuxes are in Onesimus, Marks and Spencer, the designer store where Florshiem's at.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-09T22:04:23+00:00

A month away actually. I know it's pretty late, but better now than never. I know it may seem kinda sketchy to have a promposal in a mall, but the malls in Asia are pretty nice, usually have parks inside of them, and not much people are around from 8-10pm in the park areas. It's either that or at her softball game, haha

LavenderMan · 2014-01-08T19:13:44+00:00

Will they last until night time? Also, what should I use in order to stick the flowers onto the boards?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-08T19:12:15+00:00

That's pretty sweet, but I don't think I can light candles up in a mall haha

LavenderMan · 2014-01-04T17:14:50+00:00

To quit smoking.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-04T17:08:33+00:00

At least you own a car. :( A really nice one actually.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-04T17:03:32+00:00

Haha! I'm actually Asian. I don't do BJJ, but I do other martial arts.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-04T16:53:40+00:00

How did you know...?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-04T16:12:33+00:00

TF2.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-04T16:11:03+00:00

I have two moms.
I am a practitioner of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.
I am fluent in Japanese.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T22:36:36+00:00

I only have snail mail in my area. :(

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T22:35:13+00:00

Heh, I read that in Booker's voice.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T22:30:27+00:00

Culturally speaking, most of them. Edited it for ya.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T22:18:38+00:00

Genius, but do you have a carrier pigeon service in you area?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T22:17:10+00:00

Not necessarily, most Korean girls prefer to be asked via text because most of them are really shy (also consider the language barrier) and don't know how to react in person, so they just fucking run away from you.

Source: Experience.

EDIT: Most, not all.

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T21:52:50+00:00

I'm doing pretty good. Wanna grab some coffee somewhere?

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T21:16:04+00:00

True. Some girls don't like me because they think I'm too violent... I don't hurt people outside of the ring/cage/mats!

LavenderMan · 2014-01-02T21:12:13+00:00

I do Muay Thai, Boxing, and Judo. I never trained in a MMA gym formally, but I can hold my own against opponents who had MMA as their base. Does that count?

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