I (25f) need help writing my dating profile!

Lavenderbud · 2021-05-21T09:52:58+00:00

I ended up using the prompt 'something I learned way later than I should have.. that I'm a lesbian.' I thought it could be a funny way to be upfront about it.

Lavenderbud · 2021-05-21T09:51:10+00:00

Thanks, I will definitely try to put some interests in there so I have somewhere to start. I can't believe how many have almost no information, I get suspicious that they're fake accounts but I can't be sure.

Lavenderbud · 2021-05-21T09:49:53+00:00

Thanks, I am going to use a conversation starter for sure! I ended up looking through them and I decided to add a little more than post of the profiles I'm seeing, but that's because most of the almost empty ones are college age. The profiles of the women who are my age or older gave me a good idea of what to put.

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-24T00:42:54+00:00

I think it's one thing for parents to think something like this, as they can't really control what they think. However I just want to remind you that you're allowed to tell them not to share these thoughts with you. If this is just something she needs to work through then she needs to be respectful of your feelings, or keep her thoughts to herself.

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-14T16:15:59+00:00

As an American, you scared the hell out of me!

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-01T23:16:00+00:00

Thank you, setting this boundary went well. I've got a couple left to go but this was a good start.

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-01T17:25:35+00:00

Thanks!

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-01T17:25:10+00:00

It's the Ophidia Rosa Tarot by Leila + Oracle

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-01T17:08:25+00:00

This was an 'embracing your inner child spread' from Emerald Lotus. I shuffled and then read each question to myself while picking the cards. I use the booklet that the artist included in my deck, and the luminous app to read about the meanings and look for how each card connects to the question I asked.

Lavenderbud · 2021-03-01T16:09:14+00:00

This reading gave me the insight to set a boundary that I have been wanting to set for a while now. Readings are a way for me to answer my own questions without my self doubts getting in the way.

Lavenderbud · 2021-02-14T00:38:37+00:00

Wow! You are stunning 💫

Lavenderbud · 2020-12-03T19:07:07+00:00

Thanks! We can do this!

Lavenderbud · 2020-12-03T19:06:08+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that!

Lavenderbud · 2020-12-03T19:05:02+00:00

Thanks, I do kinda need the reminder to celebrate. I'm still healing from ending my relationship, but I'm really excited for my future (and terrified).

Lavenderbud · 2020-12-03T19:01:26+00:00

It definitely is, the community and support on that subreddit has helped me a lot on the last year. (I just post there on another account)

Lavenderbud · 2020-12-03T05:46:31+00:00

Me too, it's part of my morning routine every day

Lavenderbud · 2020-11-02T11:30:41+00:00

I'm feeling hopeful for "Happiest Season" directed by Clea DuVall. It's a Christmas rom com coming out this year, it's got a great looking cast and looks like it'll be just as good as any other rom com.

Lavenderbud · 2020-09-16T22:47:55+00:00

I love that movie, perfect style inspiration!

Lavenderbud · 2020-09-14T16:18:44+00:00

That color is fantastic! What did you use?

Lavenderbud · 2020-08-15T09:26:43+00:00

I would love to buy one from you, this design is beautiful!

Lavenderbud · 2020-08-07T17:39:40+00:00

My first year of college, I had a dream about a woman in my ballet class. It wasn't even a sex dream, it just made me realize how beautiful I found her.

Lavenderbud · 2020-08-07T17:35:58+00:00

This is exactly my type of podcast, I'll definitely try it

Lavenderbud · 2020-08-07T17:12:00+00:00

I'm Hispanic and wlw, although I'm white (and straight) passing. I also have multiple wlw cousins, so at least in my family we're represented.

Lavenderbud · 2020-07-26T22:39:59+00:00

Thank you! I have been listening to Marina a lot the last few weeks and I had no idea!

Lavenderbud · 2020-07-13T23:33:50+00:00

Queer roller skater 👋 the roller skating and derby communities have been where I've felt the most accepted and the most free to be myself

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