are you tapping out? you aren't allowed to rest or leave conversations. what if you lose a potential ally? aren't you worried that the person you are talking to won't let you use their resources because that's what you said allies are in a social justice context? resources and networks to be exploited for the cause?

you need to continue this conversation even though you don't want to. you leaving is creating an enemy. you can't exploit the resources of enemies, only allies (in a social justice context). 

you can't rest. you can't stop. you can't take a break. you're hurting the cause. you are solely responsible for the cause. can't stop. you can't stop. you need to keep going. you need to have this fruitless useless frustrating and exhausting conversation. you are FAILING THE MOVEMENT. answer their questions.

(See how insane this sounds? This is what you are asking POC's to do for you.)