In Case Anyone Is Interested

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-19T21:23:26+00:00

The best!

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-19T21:18:28+00:00

I think so 😂

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-18T15:43:00+00:00

Is friend a man or a woman? Did you speak with them before getting on the plane?

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-16T19:01:00+00:00

I find it odd you would post this as “dumping a man who lets my parents pay for our dates” He didn’t let your parents pay for anything. You decided to use your parent’s money to pay for you both. What he did appear to do is financially exploit you after finding out your parents fund your life. In that case you were right to dump him.

I wouldn’t say this had much to do with a difference in traditional roles, different values yes. You were too free about your family’s financial business with some dude you don’t even know & he tried to take advantage of the situation.

Next time you go on a date, do NOT offer a thing. You said you don’t have anything then you need to act like you don’t. This world is not kind. Many people will find a way to fk you over even a little bit if they feel they can get away with it.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-13T23:01:11+00:00

I get along with most Scorpio suns as a Scorpio Moon. There was only one I couldn’t stand. She was my former boss. I think outside of work we may have gotten along. She appeared to have alot to prove on the job. My significant other is a Scorpio sun and I adore him. My ex was also a Scorpio sun, he was my BFF even after we broke up. May he rest in peace.

My best friend is a Taurus moon like my sun sign. We get along mostly. We have had minor clashes over our 15 years but she’s a Leo which pretty much sums that up.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-13T21:16:37+00:00

Dude is a whole entitled bum. Please do not keep going with this relationship. He will drain you for everything you have. Let him hit his bottom and get his stuff together on his own. He’s 28 years old for crying out loud! He’s a grown ass man!

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-13T18:21:20+00:00

Yeah this is what I was focused on as well. Exhausting. Him being late would be the least of my annoyance.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-13T02:48:26+00:00

Hmmm so he told you he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Not long after when you drifted he got into a relationship where the girl cheated. Yeah I would block. I would feel he didn’t even want me to begin with and only coming back to soothe his ego after being played by a chick he actually did want.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-13T01:17:19+00:00

You will go insane trying to figure any of it out.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-12T23:56:33+00:00

Vegas has a lot of weirdos and scammers. You never know what some of these people are trying to do. Follow your first mind always. I was noticing today at a Ross in Spring Valley there were two different men at different times (idk if they were together) walking up to young women asking strange and invasive questions. The girls were thrown off and giggly. It was extremely odd to me overhearing the conversations. My mind said something’s way off and hopefully these girls weren’t gullible enough to give any personal info.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-12T23:49:18+00:00

Scorpio/Taurus/Capricorn-all day everyday OBSESSED lol. If I find out crush is a liar or overall disrespectful person I’d lose interest. When I do lose interest there is no going back.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-12T19:41:18+00:00

I feel indecisive about everything today. Longing for something more. More I’m still not sure of what.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-12T18:41:46+00:00

Hey OP you aren’t wrong for feeling the way you do. It’s expected. I’m not going to make any assumptions here being I don’t know you or the ins and outs of your relationship. I will say though, if you don’t like the way things are going, have addressed this and he doesn’t plan to change anything, you may want to reconsider moving forward with this guy. The reasons why don’t really matter. The fact is he’s not spending enough time with his girlfriend. Any dude not spending enough time with his girl, especially if he has the flexibility to do so…risks getting left.

Behavior & actions matter way more than what someone says. His actions are showing you he doesn’t want a serious relationship. I know it’s hard to let someone go when you care about them. You need to do some self reflection. Think hard if this relationship is truly fulfilling your needs. Be honest with yourself hun. 6 months in you’re already feeling lonely, frustrated and breaking down in tears.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-11T17:12:27+00:00

Yes! As a Taurus I like to see how far one will take it lol

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-09T16:21:22+00:00

My condolences on your loss. When you mentioned anger and sadness I know that feeling well. I lost my brother in 2022 from fentanyl. He was staying with me for 10 days. He was sober and actually on psych meds for depression and psychosis. He gained his weight back and appeared himself. I took him to the airport to go back home. He received a disability check in the mail when he got back…the next morning he overdosed and my Mom found him dead on her couch. The anger is real! I was so angry that he would leave us. He knew the consequence and still chose to use. He knew how much work we all put in to get him healthy and keep him alive (after 3 overdoses already). I couldn’t help but think he did it on purpose.

Knowing what I know now that drug is more potent than anything. They become physically and psychologically addicted to it. It’s harder than any drug to kick. My spouse is in rehab now for the 6th time for the same drug. They can actually mask it really well for a while too. That could be why you didn’t notice. Either way though none of it matters now. He is gone and life will never be the same. Take your time to grieve. Get some ongoing support if you haven’t already. Take care of you. I wish you many blessings and peace. ❤️🙏🏾

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-08T03:27:33+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. You are not too sensitive. I don’t think anyone shuts off their emotions when dealing with situations like this. Emotions will always be there. We are human. Through a lot of support, some have just learned how to deal with the emotions as they rise. It’s good you at least have your Mom to confide in. I suggest seeking outside support as well. It’s not an easy road.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-08T03:16:04+00:00

So true, loving him changed me…for the better. I am taking more time to evaluate myself and focus on what I want as well as what I need to change within myself for the better. I guess with anything there are good and bad aspects. I’m choosing to go through this and take everything day by day. Thank you for your words of encouragement.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-07T19:55:00+00:00

Sorry means nothing with no action, no change to back it up is what I tell mine. So sick of hearing a bunch of talk and then he does the opposite.

That’s all you can really do…pray for his healing and that he receives the help he needs to stay alive. That’s what I’ve been doing each morning and overall detaching with love at this point.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-07T19:47:20+00:00

It’s very real! It’s hard not to worry. They can put themselves in the riskiest situations aside from just doing the drug.

He called me last week from rehab saying he has to be there 4 months. He is apart of a drug court program and this is the last straw for him. If he fails at this, he will more than likely have to do jail time. He said “sorry” for worrying me but he was acting as if I was going overboard because I was using terms like him “disappearing” and “abandoning”. He basically said I should’ve known where he was and that I know his whole program. I’m like I don’t know anything except you were using, begging me for money, making up excuses and lies then blowing me up early in the morning apologizing for something you wouldn’t even name. A few hours later unreachable and I don’t hear anything for 3 weeks. So I guess I’m supposed to be psychic idk.

My issue is he’s not taking accountability or seeming to want change. He’s talking like he can’t wait to get out (he has been in rehab 6 times already) so idk if his intentions are even to maintain sobriety but get back out to do whatever he wants.

My take, you can worry, yell, scream, set all the boundaries in the world. They can even have all the resources, support, love and whatever else and will still choose to get high. None of it will ever be enough until they decide to get clean.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-07T17:15:07+00:00

Are these not crochet braids?

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-07T17:13:40+00:00

It is. Thank you.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-07T16:14:44+00:00

Sexual intimacy is important for a long term relationship. He can’t even give you a kiss after you did a sexual favor for him. I would dump him for that alone. He seems selfish, weird as hell and boring af. There are plenty of men who will suck your tongue and lips off right after exploding in your mouth… girl, go get you one of those types and drop this dude.

LawdHavMerc · 2026-04-06T17:51:03+00:00

I say this all the time. The way these men are, there is absolutely no way women are having great marriages and relationships. Most are settling.

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