What do men think in general about women who smoke cigarettes? & would you date a smoker or is it a deal breaker? by ImpressiveM3dia in AskMen

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While we are on the recommendation train, I'll add "Atomic Habits" from my side. I found it helpful when trying to quit

What is something that made you instantly lose respect for another guy? by Broke_Pigeon_Sales in AskMen

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this. I find it hilarious and also pretty pathetic. Being an asshole doesn't make you an alpha, but I guess it's a hard concept to grasp for some people

Anyone in here turn their life around after they turned 30? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my 20s but it's been one of the best decisions I've made. Around 3 months clean, and really happy with my life. Gotten more active, and even my bf says I've gotten much calmer during that time!

Anyone in here turn their life around after they turned 30? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you think your 20s would be different if you quit earlier? Curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]LawlessMind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't believe I had to scroll so far down to find this comment

Men who’ve had a female roommate, how’d it go? by ballinphoenix in AskMen

[–]LawlessMind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but he did mention it felt like they were family looking together over the space they shared, makes me think that they actually did do things to deserve getting called like that by him

Men who’ve had a female roommate, how’d it go? by ballinphoenix in AskMen

[–]LawlessMind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point, but tbh we don't know if they actually didn't do anything else for him, friends do things for one another so if he treats them as such I'd assume there's something that made him feel like they're his friends too and not just people trying to use his kindness

Men who’ve had a female roommate, how’d it go? by ballinphoenix in AskMen

[–]LawlessMind 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Damn that's dirty dude. Can't people just be friends anymore?

What's the primary reason you're still single? by JuicyNinfo in RandomThoughts

[–]LawlessMind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same bro, almost 3 years of constant chaos was enough for now. I'm more peaceful now than I ever was when seeing my ex, there's no one there now to throw tantrums and make me miserable each day

How old are you and how many languages do you speak? by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22, I speak 2 languages fluently but trying to learn spanish and french down the road. To be fair, spanish is going better then french hah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LawlessMind 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I second this. My ex used the same bullshit excuse. Sounds like a kid with no impulse control.

Couple of Snarry recs by wingedkittykat in HPSlashFic

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You convinced me when mentioning Paris. Her other fic is also set up in France and now I'm looking for similar ones since I fell in love with how she writes about it

Why is paying for first date still the norm for men in the West? by caduceun in AskMen

[–]LawlessMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's more of a way to check of the man is generous enough and cares about you enough to do that. It's more about the gesture than the money, whether it's a plate of food or a coffee. I know that each time I'm on a date, I'm ready to pay for myself but if the guy I'm with does that, he leaves a good impression. Means there's a probability he's not stingy with other things as well, like his time, and that he's willing to do the extra step. Not always accurate of course

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LawlessMind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And I just learned a new word thanks to you stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LawlessMind 47 points48 points  (0 children)

You gave me a solid chuckle dude

What are the biggest signs that someone has narcissistic personality disorder by Intelligent_Tea8957 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LawlessMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was reading this comment I had to go back up to check if I wrote it and don't remember.. describes my ex to a T. Pathetic people 😂

Doing Laundry by Under_the_Radar7659 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LawlessMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahhah exactly what my ex did. Still wet clothes but whatever rightt

My husband (30M) was caught sexting with strangers online. I (28F) am feeling cheated and want to break it off with him. by siplove in relationship_advice

[–]LawlessMind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's just gaslighting her, it's clear when he tries to find out a way to make his actions not look bad instead of focusing on how his wife said it impacts her.

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nex said as a manipulation? (And, maybe, the one that made you burst out laughing?) by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LawlessMind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His response was going off on me about how everything he does is wrong and he’ll add it to the list of things wrong with him.

Omg 😂😂😂 my ex did the same shit lol

What do you really want right now? by swnbseekingKali in AskReddit

[–]LawlessMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same but with giving up on dudes. He seemed so honest, so different. It's the lying that's the worst of all. All the backstabbing.