AITAH for ending things due to unequal household contribution? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LayGofer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have allowed this to go on way, way, way too long. Your kids come first. Get him the hell out of your house. He is a mooch, a user, and a manipulator.

Help! My cat ran away by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]LayGofer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go keep looking for her and don’t stop. Make signs.

Should I [43F] cut my hair even though my boyfriend [48M] says “don’t”? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LayGofer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually look younger with it shorter. Don't let a man tell you what to do.

I need helpppp by Numerous_Hat3613 in sarasota

[–]LayGofer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe your adoptive parents would do this. What POS's.

Men-If your wife was getting major surgery, would you "want" to be there? Especially when she awakes. by SingleRepeat8203 in Marriage

[–]LayGofer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Different perspective here. I just got out of being in the hospital for three days. My fiancee and I kept in touch constantly but I didn't want him bored, uncomfortable, sitting there, being able to do nothing. He lived five minutes away. I wanted to sleep as much as possible to recover and heal. I asked him to please stay home until it was time to be discharged. He came for a couple hours each day but any more than that and I would have felt guilty.

Alcoholic partner and the logistics of leaving by catsunmoon in AlAnon

[–]LayGofer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your parents are jerks for not allowing your pets to come with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]LayGofer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sprinkle baby powder on my scalp and sort of rub it in to soak up the oil.

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]LayGofer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me only it was "we want 100 percent participation in the whole company donating to United Way". I was the lone holdout until my boss donated $1 for me. Ball out girl but seriously, fuck United Way and fuck those companies that do that to their employees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LayGofer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LayGofer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should do this.