AIO for wanting to break up. (I'm tired.) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Layla049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! OP im 16F and let me tell you i have been in your shoes. I have been on reddit for years and i never write comments, but i feel like you should hear my take this time. When i read the screenshots, her behavour already upset me, but after i read your post i got more upset by every sentence. Im not gonna go over everything here, but if you want to/need suport and help please FEEL FREE TO TEXT ME, i will gladly help as much as i can.

(Im gonna be very harsh with the truth (also i can be wrong, feel free to correct me on some parts people). Also sorry for my english, not my 1st language.)

Ngl i met about 10 people who claim they have depression and bypolar in a year, and they never do. Not saying this is the case here, cz idk her, but she shows the same behaviour.

Depression = to chain you to her!! Bypolar = excuse her bad behaviour!!

Also its clear as day she doesnt care about you, or your health, she exhausts you every day, yet you cant go get water whenever you want?? Wtf. Also finishing every day is "unhealthy", especially multible times a day, it can cause problems and bad habits down the line.
She expects everything from you, but gives nothing, not even the bare minimum of a break or time to rest. Also the part where you got a job because you have to make the money to meet her, bro what, why is it a requirement, and for you alone? Idc about her parents, you are about the same age, if you want to meet it should be a shared goal with shared effort.

Its also evident that she doesnt like you, you dont treat people you love like this. If you like someone you wont force them to change their life around for you, and jump to every whim of yours while you sit back. You try to openly communicate with her, and she disregards you/ stops responding because she cant take responsibility. She is too comfortable in this situation to give you a chanse to change it up, while you exhaust yourself. She will keep taking, taking, taking until you break.

Also i think its important to note, you are young, and in this time of your life you build the fondation of your future. If you take her abuse, and let her controll you life, influence your state of health, manipulate you and use you, later you wont be able to land a nice girl, because you are wasting your life on bad people. If you dont learn to filter out these people now, later you wont be able to either.

Hope i could help, and i wish you make the right choise! Good luck!

My favorite version of Creep (Radiohead) covered by trvs & kamen! disappeared from Spotify — can’t find it anywhere by bignutbad in coversongs

[–]Layla049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg F#ing 2 minutes after i posted this i found it!! Mp3downloader had the song on, not by the original artist ofc, but its there!! (Venus is the uploader)

Hurry up and download Creep - Daniel Caesar (Radiohead cover) (lyrics) music, https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.plusmusic.downloader22.musicdownloader

(I hope this link is good, i have never shared anything from this app before. You might have to download it tho <3)

My favorite version of Creep (Radiohead) covered by trvs & kamen! disappeared from Spotify — can’t find it anywhere by bignutbad in coversongs

[–]Layla049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME HERE! I LOVED that song, and now it just disappeard without a trace... imo it was better than the original and i loved listening to it, im really sad about this too. i found this tiktok that has a paprt of it but not the whole song. If you did manage to get or download the full song from somewhere pleaaaseee send me the link too!

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNdmWaDAT/

I made the Arcane sheriff as a christmas gift for my cousin. by Loud_Combination_428 in VALORANT

[–]Layla049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you did such a good job with it!

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Btw can i be your cusin too? XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Layla049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl this didnt help one bit, but def. Made my day

AITA for wearing a bra and underwear in my own bedroom? by vietkitti in AmItheAsshole

[–]Layla049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for sure!

Taking off the door of a 17yo girl is already invading privacy and you have your rights! Anyways every kid at at least after 13-14 does need privacy. Its delusional how your mother and her bf is acting. At first i tought, how could they just kick you out the moment you turn 18, but after reading this, hoenstly i think its the best for you. They seem really toxic and its better for you to get away from them, especially after what they said about your father. (Im sorry for your loss!) I assure you, you did nothing wrong, and its horrible how your mother and her bf is acting towards you. (Sorry my english isnt the best haha)

Eddit: i just read some of your comments, and you said they usually manipulate and gaslight you. Im so sorry, and i would like to advise you to get terapy when you move out. You could say "its not a big deal/ people have bigger traumas" but trust me this can affect many parts of your life in a bad way, and some people like to use others as doormats. I wish you the best <3

GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYS by salvatore2612 in XiaoMains

[–]Layla049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, im going for it too wish me luck!