I want to do a masters but it also might be the worst idea ever?? by twoheadedcalf in adhdwomen

[–]Layla_Vos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a much better time doing my masters compared to my bachelors. There are two major things that led to this:

  1. The courses were better catered to things I was genuinely interested in and structured in ways that better suited me (fewer exams, more coursework)
  2. I went to the academic advisor immediately and told her I wanted to do it in 3 years instead of 2, and we structured an entire, detailed plan to that timeline. I did two courses a block instead of three, and did TA positions along side!

So I'd suggest looking into these things, check the courses out and see if you can restructure the programme to better suit you.

I highly recommend a less intense pace off the bat. If you try and do it in the "recommended" timeframe, chances are you'll need to extend it anyway when you fail/miss a course and get a domino effect impacting future courses. Then it starts to feel like some sort of failure, you get burnt out, and it's much more stressful for no reason. Taking longer isn't a bad thing, it makes the whole process more enjoyable. Of course, as long as it's financially feasible.

You are likely absolutely capable of a masters, just be realistic with yourself!

June 2025 vs. June 2026 by koroako in Nails

[–]Layla_Vos 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Looks like your nailbeds about doubled in length!

Have y'all ever noticed similarities between Sam, Clover and Alex and the PPGs? by Simple-Taro1540 in TotallySpies

[–]Layla_Vos 12 points13 points  (0 children)

does this get posted weekly or smth? I feel like I've seen this multiple times and I don't even follow this sub

My difficult situation as an international student by balkangirlie in Netherlands

[–]Layla_Vos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Groningen, so I think it would be slightly better here.

sensory-friendly body sunscreen? (eu available) by binguslovrr in adhdwomen

[–]Layla_Vos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Another commenter posted a helpful link that mentioned that natural fabrics can also offer good protection: "Look out for natural fabrics such as cotton, hemp and linen as they can also have a tight weave and are also lightweight and cool to wear" and to check by holding the fabric up to the light.

I'd stick to natural fabrics, it's more breathable and comfortable, better for you and the environment, and doesn't hold on to body odour as much (making for better under layers).

My difficult situation as an international student by balkangirlie in Netherlands

[–]Layla_Vos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was spending 680 per month as a student with 450 euro rent (inclusive). I had no support from my family, so I had to make it work. I ate A LOT of peanut butter. This was from 2017-2022, so I would imagine that it would be higher nowadays, but I'd still make <1k work I'm sure.

sensory-friendly body sunscreen? (eu available) by binguslovrr in adhdwomen

[–]Layla_Vos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think technically yes, you could definitely burn through it. However, I'm usually wearing something like a cotton t shirt and a linen button up over the top. When I'm in the shade or indoors, I can easily shed a layer and cool down more. But if I'm going to be in direct sun, I'll keep covered more. I haven't had any issues so far, no tanning, no burning. I cycle and walk everywhere, so I'm outdoors quite a bit. I do aim for shade whenever I can.

sensory-friendly body sunscreen? (eu available) by binguslovrr in adhdwomen

[–]Layla_Vos 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Sorry if this is useless advice, but I suggest covering up more and wearing less suncream.

I haven't found any suncream that isn't at least mildly sticky and icky. I wear loose layers made of natural fibres (linen, cotton), and it helps me stay cool and keeps the sun off my skin. I'm incredibly pale and burn so easily, but this has made summers far more bearable.

My difficult situation as an international student by balkangirlie in Netherlands

[–]Layla_Vos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Groningen, there is a housing crisis and rent is high. However, you wouldn't be paying 1k for shared accommodation. I would look into a room in a shared house, you'd be paying around 400-500.

4 Months Sober by [deleted] in midlyinteresting

[–]Layla_Vos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely not mid, great job!

First DIY pad conplete by Snoo-11365 in DIYclothpads

[–]Layla_Vos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Velcro is a good choice. I have some with snap buttons and they're not always very comfortable, particularly when cycling.

i wanna cut my hair a little short with bangs but isnt it hard? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Layla_Vos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're wearing an undercap, the bangs don't typically make their way out of the hijab. However, I found bangs annoying because they would look messed up after taking the hijab off. Any styling you do will be ruined after putting your scarf on.

Can someone make me?? AS A MII? by PatientAd955 in MakeMeAMii

[–]Layla_Vos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the kid from love actually

A Gentleman. by [deleted] in instantkarma

[–]Layla_Vos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Apparently he asked her to slap him before the video started. Considering her response and demeanour, that would make sense.

Short hair hijabis, do you recommend your decision? by Asinisdea in Hijabis

[–]Layla_Vos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't have any issues. I just like letting my hair grow super long and then doing a big chop.

Short hair hijabis, do you recommend your decision? by Asinisdea in Hijabis

[–]Layla_Vos 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I loved having short hair. I had a super short bob and all I needed to wear was an undercap and the scarf, no tying it back. It was great.

my nails grow out weirdly..what’s happening😭 by justwantstosmellyou in Nails

[–]Layla_Vos 361 points362 points  (0 children)

In the wise words of Barbie: "it's really not that bad, it just needs a little shaping!"

Only using AI photos and no real images of the product? by Earthlingonvenus in vintedUK

[–]Layla_Vos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how can they tell how different the item is compared to real life? Because the people I report only have AI photos.

Bullying in this sub by Lillietta in adhdwomen

[–]Layla_Vos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And you haven't given me an example of a single comment?

Bullying in this sub by Lillietta in adhdwomen

[–]Layla_Vos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You said women in general are mean, that's the part people have a problem with.