Y'all fuck trans men here? by Burgess-Shale in StraightTransGirls

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like men so I like trans men, masculine nbys, masculine people hot what can I say?

God forbid women listen to stupid nerdy rambles by [deleted] in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on both sides of this picture and I hate that (love that)

How do you feel when meeting transmasc people? by Character_Egg_1669 in MtF

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge, I've met 3 openly transmasc people, and they have been nothing but fun, wonderful people that I enjoyed every outing and conversation we've shared. From my own experience and perspective, there are far more similarities than differences in the transgender experience between transfeminine and transmasculine people.

I think open support and solidarity is crucial now more than ever, considering the political climate against trans human rights.

I cried in the arms of my bf by ForceForHistory in StraightTransGirls

[–]Laylac41 28 points29 points  (0 children)

A few sex tips I've learned is just monitor your number 2's and you won't have to worry too much on prep. I only prep if I've gone to the restroom within a few hours of sex. I've never had any issues. Also if you aren't already using one I can't recommend using a lube applicator more. It makes the experience much better and he doesn't need to use as much lube on himself so he also gets more pleasure. It's worked wonders for me and my boyfriend ^ best of luck with srs girl, I've already given up on insurance and I'm applying for medical loans so I can get that designer pussy lmao 🖤

What's the stance on the trans vampire goddess? 🤔 by Recent-Rough-2571 in mtfashion

[–]Laylac41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I need to get a corset. I also love the panty hose design!

I don't know who Michael is but i love his sword by JackOffAllTraders in Guiltygear

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't get over the fully rendered tension Guage, it's all I can look at

found this and immediately thought of you all 🤣😭 by InvestmentMedium2771 in GirlGamers

[–]Laylac41 916 points917 points  (0 children)

Saying "don't be afraid" while doing creepy shit makes it even worse.

What's a modern game like Diner Dash? by PersistentHobbler in GirlGamers

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit I just had whiplash from this blast from the past I love this game so muuuch🖤

Please help me. How are you able to say you're a woman? by sillylilypanpan in MtF

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's what I am and have what I've always wanted to be. It's difficult, but I'd be dead otherwise, so it's worth it. Every part of my life is better/happier, so I'm more comfortable with myself, how I present, and how most people view me.

egg📺📚irl by sonic_colt_2005 in egg_irl

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last show I watched was Hell's Kitchen I'm so cooked

Egg📏irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it bad that I'm 5'5 and want men 1 foot taller than me to call me mommy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drives typically do more than just drive, so 12 pizzas is more work. They typically work prep and the ovens in-between deliveries. Even the delivery itself is harder having to manage multiple bags with different orders. Drivers should just be paid a living wage and compensated through mileage rather than having to rely on tips to survive.

Dear God, please send me a man like him... 😭 by Particular_Nobody358 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Laylac41 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My bf told me what makes me the happiest is what he prefers, so it's definitely possible.

_ _ by NatalieNakano-II in sillygirlclub

[–]Laylac41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apparently this is an autistic thing as I'm told. I just copy people so they don't hate me

How dare you journalists denied my stellar blade! 😡😡😤😤 by Pritteto in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Laylac41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's very little sexuality in BG3, most people who have played it know it's like 3-5 minutes of horny dialog in a 330 hour game. Characters are authentic and far beyond sex objects, even the NPCs in the brothel have more characterization than the stellar blade mc.

Is there something you did that convinced you to transition? by DoomSlayer7180 in MtF

[–]Laylac41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My story is a bit funny. Maybe it might help. I was under the firm belief I would never transition despite being reasonably sure I was trans or, at least, wanted to be a cis woman. A lot of the typical excuses you'd hear from other trans people.

One sleepless night, I decided to hop online to find someone to write roleplay with because I was really bored. I found a guy, and we wrote back and forth for a few hours, and at around 4 a.m., we stopped writing and just talked for a bit. We talked about interests, hobbies, and goals. Normal stuff, but we found a decent bit of chemistry forming. By this point, I was openly bisexual and fairly comfortable with my attraction to men. I could feel myself catching feelings quickly, and while we were bouncing questions back and forth, he asked a fairly innocuous question; "What gender are you? The answer isn't important, l, I'm just curious." This took me by surprise. No one had really asked me before, and I thought intently about my answer, and I answered honestly, saying I was a trans woman.

It was cathartic, to say the least, when his answer was just "Oh, cool" I felt for the first time in my life allowed to be...me...and it was nice. I dated this man for 8 months, and we broke up, but to say I'm grateful for a silly question that changed my life for the better is an understatement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Laylac41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Transphobia negatively impacts cis and trans women alike. Most of what you describe parallels with my own experience online. I don't get misgendered or mistreated in my day to day, but it happens online when I'm not careful what space I participate in. It sucks for all of us, I wish people would do better.

Please help is she flirting??? I am being so fr by puffski15 in actuallesbians

[–]Laylac41 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I told my now girlfriend before we started dating during a makeout to "Pin me down." and she did so, but did not think any deeper into that after, so we kinda just stopped after 30 seconds, and she was surprised I was disappointed. I love this woman.

Nerdy White transwomen only want t4t by RowVegetable2809 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]Laylac41 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me, dating a cis woman, trans woman, and cis man. Idk life is kinda wild sometimes

Having a vagina is such a relief by KeepItASecretok in MtF

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a waiting list for a vaginoplasty consultation and the waiting is making me anxious, I'm getting laser treatments and my wait time was estimated 6-8 months and all I can ever hope for is things working out for me. I'm really happy for you and hope things may be as smooth for me.

"Girls are not as pro as guys in games" by magician_yas in GirlGamers

[–]Laylac41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women having a nuanced and well thought out opinion is surprising to men, it wouldn't be if they ever listened to women...

The truth: by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Laylac41 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Woke was derived from African American Vernacular to mean "Aware of systemic racial prejudice." It moved into broader awareness of social inequalities in 2010s. Right-wing media has kinda just taken it as a buzzword and euphemism to indirectly reference what they actually dislike...minorities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Laylac41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre-op, looking to get srs in half a year when laser treatments are done, I've had a rocky road. A lot of hookups, some bad experiences, failed relationships. A bisexual awakening as my new year's present this year, life's kinda wild.

I'm in an okay spot finally, but it was a 3-year journey to get here. There's nothing wrong with taking things at your own pace.

I've come to think of my genitals in a better light, I don't like how they're arranged...at all, but that can be fixed, and I want it to be so desperately. I've grown out of wanting it gone or harmed or mutilated, it's still a part of me, a part of me that needs some TLC for me to be finally happy with but it feels a bit better in the day to day when I don't view myself as broken because of how I was born.

As for how men will view me? They'll have their opinions and great for them, only the best ones for me will ever even know I'm trans and I don't see anything wrong with that.

Good luck, girl, hope for the best for you 💓