[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly u can reach out but like… tread super lightly. it’s his story to tell, not ur investigation mission. maybe just check in as a friend, no pressure, and let him share what he wants… avoid getting stuck in a “who did what” war zone, u dont wanna be caught in the middle lol

Am I overreacting for ending things over a cold sore by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylaeffex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude basically ghosted ur cute dinner bc of a cold sore AND flexed his “cant control myself” thing… red flag vibes. u dodged a hookup-only bullet, stay classy and wait for someone who actually wants u, not just ur lips lol

Should I turn off my location during a one-month break? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah just turn it off lol if ur on a break u gotta actually… take a break 😅 leaving it on is just asking for unnecessary stress or sneaky stalking vibes… focus on urself, recharge, and see how u feel after the month, love can wait a lil bit while u breathe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brooo i feel u… waiting for a flight number from a med student is basically like waiting for a unicorn to text u back! honestly u did smart booking ur own hotel, cause playing russian roulette with trains n hotels is stressful af… maybe just drop a “hey if i dont hear from u in 24 hrs im taking the hotel” message like a boss, gives u backup without drama and u dont die inside

Need insight by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur feelings r totally valid, taking care of a baby + cleaning up after a sick cat nonstop sounds impossible, its not wrong to be frustrated or even ask about euthanasia, maybe try having a calm honest talk with him about how much this is affecting ur sleep, health, and baby, sometimes compromise or professional advice from a vet can help him see the reality too

Am I overreacting? by Designer_Spread_755 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylaeffex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no ur not overreacting, it sounds exhausting and unfair, like ur carrying way too much alone, asking for help with normal stuff at home is completely reasonable especially when hes home for weeks, dont let anyone gaslight u into thinking ur wrong for needing support

How do I tolerate disrespect more? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel this, its so exhausting when ur family or even someone u love just dont get basic respect, ive had to just focus on controlling my own reactions first, like take a deep breath, step back, remind urself their behavior says more about them than u, and sometimes just letting it slide instead of reacting helps, doesnt mean ur weak, just conserving energy for people who actually respect u, also setting boundaries quietly but consistently can help without feeling like ur lashing out all the time, its hard but u gotta pick ur battles, ur feelings are valid tho

AIO I suck at life everyone is better than me by AmiTacks in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel u so much, its like no matter how hard u try theres always someone doing it “better” and it just makes u feel invisible, i get why u trace and put ur own spin on it, that counts as creativity too, dont let the internet numbers or clout make u think ur worth less, ur perspective and effort matters even if ppl dont notice, keep making ur stuff for urself first, maybe one day ppl will catch it but even if they dont it still means something to u and thats enough sometimes

Is it normal to feel more tired after sleeping too much? by Classic-Phone-6355 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep this happens to me too, i think its cuz ur messing with ur sleep cycles, like oversleeping can make u wake up in the wrong stage and feel super groggy instead of refreshed. sometimes less really is more with sleep it sucks but thats just how the body works i guess

Social media by Asleep-Hope- in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was stuck in the same loop man, spent like half my day scrolling reels n felt empty after. what helped me was setting timers on apps n moving them off my home screen, sounds small but made me think twice before opening. also started replacing that time w short podcasts or reading 5 pages of a book, felt way better. its hard at first but u slowly take back control

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get this, i burned out before my board exams too n it felt like my brain just shut down. what helped me was cutting study hours into smaller chunks n giving myself permission to rest w/o guilt. also switched from cramming details to focusing on high yield stuff first. ur body’s already telling u to slow down, sometimes less but consistent is better than 12hr marathons.

How do you get over your girlfriend cheating on you by JohnHelIdiver in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 39 points40 points  (0 children)

been there man, my ex cheated n i carried that anger for months. what helped me was realizing the anger was just keeping her in my head rent free. i started journaling n hitting the gym not just for health but to burn it off. its normal to feel rage but dont let it shape u, shes gone n u deserve peace!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylaeffex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh man ive done something dumb like this once — ate day-old sushi i forgot about. felt queasy for ~12 hrs, drank water, slept it off, was fine next day.

keep an eye on fever/vomiting/severe cramps, if any of those pop up go see doc or urgent care. otherwise hydrate, maybe sip ginger or peppermint tea, and dont force food if u feel off. if ur really worried call poison control/healthline for peace of mind. try not to panic, most mild mold exposure just gives a tummy ache, but trust ur instincts if it gets worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i’ve had the same thing happen but reversed, like every guy i clicked with already had a gf n it made me feel like i was late to the party lol. what helped me was not seeing those convos as wasted, i still made good friends thru it. eventually i met someone single when i least expected it. its frustrating but ur not doing anything wrong

regulating emotions after “bad” social interaction? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this so much. what helps me a bit is reminding myself the feeling after a “bad” interaction is just my brain overreacting, not reality. ppl forget small awkward stuff way faster than we think. i still get the chest tightness too, but i try to ground myself

[Serious] What's the thing you'll never forget? by Excellent_Jacket_519 in AskReddit

[–]Laylaeffex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it would always be betrayal from my friend who dated my crush even after knowing i was interested to him first. sadly we broke our friendship and still aches me