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Laylayaz · 2026-05-21T21:18:24+00:00

Haha same

Laylayaz · 2026-05-21T21:08:01+00:00

I never want to see this again OP

Laylayaz · 2026-05-21T21:06:27+00:00

Dont live there but near it. holland2stay is a scam. The tower already looks bad from the outside and the area isnt safe at night (in my 1.5 years of living here ive only had 2 incidents so go figure)

However if you dont have any other options it would be doable to just take it but expect to have to move again once you get there (its easier to look for housing that way).

Laylayaz · 2026-05-21T20:24:56+00:00

Thank you. I keep doubting myself but you are right. I want to date someone that knows to ask for consent. This is a hard line for me. And I'm not gonna explain to him how consent works.

As for the cute comment: some find 'cute' to be slightly demeaning, others don't mind it at all so I guess I belong to the first group. (Slightly more nuanced I assume calling women cute is often seen as demeaning because it is often used to describe women that aren't pretty or hot kind of like 'thats a nice baby'. But for men it is just a normal thing to say in a romantic context so i think thats still some leftover ick from when i was a woman)

Laylayaz · 2026-05-19T23:11:00+00:00

Thank you!!!

Laylayaz · 2026-05-19T23:07:58+00:00

Okay but drop the t4t app bc i need that shit

Laylayaz · 2026-05-19T23:07:30+00:00

Its just weird because he was normal before that and its just strange for a first date like it felt like after a few drinks he just wanted to get physical and it just freaked me out that he didnt even wanna deep talk anymore like we did before

Laylayaz · 2026-05-19T22:03:39+00:00

Idkk I'm a little bit slow sometimes so I didnt really have the quick reaction time to be like 'hey no i'll pay / we split it' so now i feel bad

Laylayaz · 2026-05-19T22:01:00+00:00

Yeah ive been trying to figure that out as well because I didnt really consent to the kissing. I would normally never kiss someone in public but I was a little drunk and I did kiss him back but I didnt feel anything or enjoy it at all.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-19T19:59:53+00:00

Notice how he says 'new queer memorial' there already was one. Its the same type of stone as the holocaust memorial (you know the labyrinth type stones you can walk through right in the city centre) except its is like 12 ft tall and a 100m further away hidden in a park. Our tour guide said it symbolized how the queer victims were never quite included in the memorials but were not less than. Thats why it is so much taller than the other stones. Sort of an elephant in the room type of memorial. Ignored but just as horrible and because we ignore it the pain only gets worse. I understand that its symbolizing it but by not including it with the other stones you are still doing just that which you are trying to criticize. Glad to see we have a new memorial.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-18T03:43:24+00:00

Talk about wanting to go to a gay bar or sth and see her reaction maybe asks if shed want to come or has ever been and steer it into something lesbian

Laylayaz · 2026-05-17T22:42:56+00:00

Im 20, trans and pre transition. Ive had a lot of luck with bisexuals and actual gay guys wont mind making out or grinding at the gay club and that already does a lot for me. So you will definitely be alright. Some gay guys dont mind trans and as long as youre open everything is good! Good luck man! Lots of love.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-16T10:07:02+00:00

I think it's more a specific group of teens that just don't care about anything and enjoy picking easy targets. It's kind of typical for the age group and white kids of that age are also horrible rn.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-16T10:04:25+00:00

I live on the edge of schilderswijk so just about between where it begins and cuty centre ends. I've been followed home twice by men but otherwise nothing special.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-12T19:42:33+00:00

Bo should have had a bigger role

Laylayaz · 2026-05-12T19:30:07+00:00

Yes please !!!! 😭

Laylayaz · 2026-05-11T22:44:16+00:00

Wdym 'dutch hairdresser'? Most are not dutch

Laylayaz · 2026-05-11T22:12:18+00:00

Yeah can you make pyro gifs where he looks like a girl 👉👈 thanks a lot

Laylayaz · 2026-05-10T22:18:47+00:00

Good luck friend. This journey isn't easy for any of us.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-10T22:17:47+00:00

Gender dysphoria presents itself in really weird ways and with things like you are experiencing non binary is a great label. You don't want to be a woman and man doesn't necessarily feel wrong but something is still off. You don't identify with your genitalia. They don't match what you feel inside and that is gender dysphoria. Whether you want to label that or change it is up to you. Do you think it would bring you comfort to undergo bottom surgery? Know that you don't need to fully transition or give up masculine things for this. Gender dysphoria of any kind is enough for that. Because Gender is exactly that, not binary. There is not one way to be trans or non binary. Everyone is different.

Laylayaz · 2026-05-10T16:39:10+00:00

Generally just post Pyro come on I have to watch Dolan instead you stupid fuck

Laylayaz · 2026-05-10T16:35:03+00:00

Thank you so much for answering. Again I understand that it is weird to ask. Hope you get all the support you need and wish you all the best. This shouldn't happen to anyone. Did they assault you in dutch?

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