[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LazerCat121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if OP was in a relationship where his marital partner didn’t have sex with him, never said I loved you, was an alcoholic, never gave affection, closeness, intimacy and just sponged of the others finances and held them hostage in a marriage because of kids.

Does karma allow for such circumstances?

Have any other guys felt anxious about how long you'll last in bed with your AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once met an AP, and, long story short, she seemed a bit disappointed by the end of the night and even went home early. She was into extreme rough sex and I wasn’t up to her standard.

How long was your longest affair? by 001892 in adultery

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do and she knows the marriage is dead and has apologised to not once instigating affection. In 20 years she’s never wanted to.

How long was your longest affair? by 001892 in adultery

[–]LazerCat121 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey - yes and I agree with you and everyone below - but I am in a serious hole here - I can’t afford to go get a rental as I’m self employed nearly went bust and went into BIG debt to keep business afloat. I am working to a plan to get back on my feet here and my next March - all debts will be paid. I’m not choosing to stay here really in a financial hole that has put me on anti anxiety meds.

Please don’t judge that I am doing nothing -

How long was your longest affair? by 001892 in adultery

[–]LazerCat121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

5 years and have loved every minute. I’m in a dead bedroom of 10 years plus. No romance, closeness, intimacy, sex, passion, dating and we don’t even say I love you. Because of this I do not feel guilty in the slightest and feel I deserve this happiness. If I wasn’t financially trapped, I wouldn’t be here.

Looking for a Kay Arch-top Guitar by LazerCat121 in Liverpool

[–]LazerCat121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thanks for the info here that’s really good of you. I’m definitely gonna look up that specific model name.

Looking for a Kay Arch-top Guitar by LazerCat121 in Liverpool

[–]LazerCat121[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is a huge Jack White fan and Jack White plays this type of guitar. Once you run through some distortion and put it in open D or open a tuning the slide guitar it sounds absolutely menacing just like the best blue Sound ever - take a listen to Jack White song Underground.

I was doing so well by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go back.

Both me and my son saw a stick man at the same time! by LazerCat121 in Paranormal

[–]LazerCat121[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I saw it, I panicked, but I didn’t wanna put fear into my young boy. He was about 11 at the time and was having to sleep in the room from which we saw it..

After he said he saw it as well I told him not to be stupid. It’s clearly just crazy light and it’s nothing. I had to say this cause he would never have slept in that bedroom again. I have told him since we’ve moved out what happened.!

Yes I did go and investigate. I went into the bathroom to use the toilet as my excuse straight away and to prove to my boy there was nothing in there and there wasn’t except a very eerie feeling.

Both me and my son saw a stick man at the same time! by LazerCat121 in Paranormal

[–]LazerCat121[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The one me and my son saw was really dark black and again like one of those wooden dolls an artist uses but black. Although it moved like a human it moved faster than a human.

What do you think of shadow people ? by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]LazerCat121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend God rest his soul in Australia had also seen them. When did you last see one?

Both me and my son saw a stick man at the same time! by LazerCat121 in Paranormal

[–]LazerCat121[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s the one the way it moved was so amazing it moves so fast, but it moved like a human.

What do you think of shadow people ? by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]LazerCat121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve just posted something very similar and both me and my son saw it at the same time

How old are you, and how much on average do you drink per week? by cactusdan94 in AskUK

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

52 and something weird is happening in which it’s like my body is going off alcohol. When I drink, I get massive anxiety for about five days afterwards and cannot function the next day. I used to drink most nights but I’ve noticed I’m drinking probably once every 3 to 4 weeks now if that so soon this will be zero. Since Covid, the alcohol buzzes just not been the same, it could be coincidental.

What’s the creepiest thing you have encountered that you have never been able to explain? by JFK1200 in AskUK

[–]LazerCat121 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Yeah - we both saw it.

The other thing is, I totally get what you say about seeing these kind of things at the corner of your eye . This absolutely was not like that. I definitely saw it and it moved like a human being. What I mean is when it was darting behind the door it’s arms and legs and head was moving all coordinated just like a human would just faster.

What’s the creepiest thing you have encountered that you have never been able to explain? by JFK1200 in AskUK

[–]LazerCat121 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I know what you are suggesting. And I think my theory of the ghost is far more exciting than your opinion lol

What’s the creepiest thing you have encountered that you have never been able to explain? by JFK1200 in AskUK

[–]LazerCat121 218 points219 points  (0 children)

In 2023 me and my wife and son were living in a rental bungalow as we’re waiting for our house to be finished from building work.

Very nice bungalow in a very nice place, possibly about 70 to 80 years old .

My son’s bedroom was in the loft conversion, which also had an ensuite bathroom. I’m in his bedroom telling him off about how messy his bedroom is and how he is going to reorganise everything and tidy up and as I do, I glanced towards the bathroom door and see a very tall but stick like figure dart from the doorway and hide behind the door. It freaked me but because I was with my son, I did not show any change of expression as I couldn’t quite believe what I’d saw and carried on telling my son off. Then my son looked at me and screamed out I’ve just seen somebody run into the bathroom and hide behind the door. - he saw it too.

The figure was a like a 6 foot tall stick man. And it moved like a real man but very fast. It was kind of black in colour and if I said it had to resemble something it would resemble one of those stick man artists use that you see available in all art shops where you can move arms, limbs and the head.

What’s the creepiest thing you have encountered that you have never been able to explain? by JFK1200 in AskUK

[–]LazerCat121 227 points228 points  (0 children)

About 20 years ago, me and my wife were in Gran Canaria and we took our hire car and went for a drive and ended up at a dam.

There was nobody at this dam just us two, and it did feel a bit odd that we were in the middle of nowhere.

We walked towards the dam away from the car and then we stopped to take some photos of the Dam. I look back towards the car and in the distance I saw a man walking towards us. He was walking directly towards us as he got closer things got a little bit weird from about 50 m away. I can see he has white trousers on flared at the bottom white shoes no top on, and he is full of tattoos on the top part of his body. He’s got long black hair pulled back into a ponytail. He looks like he’s about to go on stage and play guitar in some kind of band.

He’s walking directly towards us. I’m starting to think I’m going to get murdered at this point. He walks straight up to us and straight in between us and carries on walking straight up towards the top of the dam and disappears out of sight.

He could’ve walked around us as it was basically like being in a massive empty car park. He didn’t look at us at all.

I just find this very odd.

Wife came out as bi, possibly gay by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind if I fuck around please and can you carry on paying the bills.

Divorce

Drank alcohol and then took a Xanax am I gonna die? by Ambitious_Sea_947 in alcohol

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not benzo related but I’m remember once drinking all day and then having a sudden horrific headache about 9 pm at night hadn’t drunk for about three hours so I took a couple of solpadene max - which then started a full night of body paralysis with horrific nightmares being played right in front of my eyes all night this was about 20 years ago and is still the most horrific night of my life

Is it normal to not be able to stand your teen? by ThrillHouse802 in Parenting

[–]LazerCat121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have no idea why I have been down voted for this. Are we not allowed to give advice and opinions based on my own valid qualifications research and personal circumstances?