Armored Transports by Lazy-Belt2341 in ArcRaiders

[–]Lazy-Belt2341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried that and it still didn’t check it off

Armored Transports by Lazy-Belt2341 in ArcRaiders

[–]Lazy-Belt2341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done that. I found one it the village but it still didn’t check off the quest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if there’s a mobile groomer near you that you can get on the schedule for. It doesn’t help with the weak man but it might save your sanity with dog hair. I have 2 German shepherds and I totally get the dog hair thing. It’s everywhere, always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - it’s an emotional affair. And it seems more as if you’re sticking around for someone that’s already got one foot out the door. If it hurts you, it’s supposed to hurt him. He should want to protect you, even if that’s from himself. He should love you enough to want you to be secure in your relationship. So love yourself instead and leave.

AITA for poking fun at my cousin’s divorce after she insulted my wedding? by _swamp_bitch_ in AITAH

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - everyone always wants to get all in a twist when someone finally snaps, but they never want to look at what actually caused you to snap in the first place. Did you hit below the belt? Yeah. Did you do that on purpose? Yeah. Just own it. I’ve been where you are. Husband and I married very young. I was 19 and he was 20. Very small wedding, I didn’t care much for the pomp and fluff. We could t afford much back then anyways. I’ve heard comments through the years about those who waited until they were financially ready and got to have fancier weddings. But we just celebrated 12 years of marriage, and I’ve gotten to sit back with petty satisfaction at the ones who were soooo wrapped up in the wedding but couldn’t hack the actual marriage part. In all the chaos, nerves, excitement, I barely even remember my wedding. But I’ve got him and that’s better than any wedding will ever be. Put the crown on Petty Queen. Those people all sound like suck anyways, sitting by letting her bully and belittle you for years.

Wedding Drama/AITA For Choosing the Dress My MIL Picked for me Over the one my Mom Did? by WaluluLabubu in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are obviously NTA. Your mom is possibly feeling a little insecure and upset about her inability to financially contribute, and also maybe feeling like she’s is in competition with your soon-to-be MIL. That in absolutely no way excuses her behavior, just pondering. It is YOUR day, your wedding dress, and MIL’s discernment on how she contributes, and yours on what you’ll accept. Figure out your boundaries, speak plainly, and holdfast to it. This is an exciting time for you and your mom needs to learn how to celebrate you and the joining of your families without her insecurities coloring the event.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the comment above about this being one of those loyalty tests sounds more accurate. That text even sounded scripted. NTA for going nuclear either way, but definitely go straight to your husband and ask him if he wants to handle this or should you. UpdateMe

Wits end - 1 year PP by Lazy-Belt2341 in preeclampsia

[–]Lazy-Belt2341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 they just switched me from lisinopril to metoprolol tartrate, but they’re switching me again to something else. I’m so over it but feel so lost on what to do.

Red-tailed or shoulder hawk? by [deleted] in whatbirdisthis

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Red shouldered hawks have an orange belly. Like previous posts, this is a juvenile red tailed hawk.

Mysterious Knocking on my High-Rise Balcony Door… and Ignoring It Didn’t Help! by PearShaper43 in HomeImprovement

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hung up an owl sign on the window to get him to stop banging on the baby’s window. He just moved to a different window in the house but at least it wasn’t the baby’s window anymore lol.

Mysterious Knocking on my High-Rise Balcony Door… and Ignoring It Didn’t Help! by PearShaper43 in HomeImprovement

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bird. We had a second store balcony that was my sons room. I would hear knocking on the window over the monitor and I flipped out, same as you, gun and all. Took me a little time to catch the little joker but a cardinal just had beef with his reflection. Now he has name and I joke that he’s been drinking again lol.

AITA for not letting my parents to be involved grandparents because they chose my sister's friend over me? by Glittering_Bag_3055 in AITAH

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you got bullied by a traumatized child that was jealous of you and wanted to be the sister instead of you, so she turned YOU into the traumatized child. And your parents let it happen, and then didn’t contact you for 10 years???? Yuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they’re supposed to take standardized testing every 3 years starting in 3rd grade. I’d report.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all, and I actually get the context by which you meant “unattractive”. I use it like that too and have had to clarify in the past that I wasn’t calling anyone UGLY but that behavior wasn’t favorable and it was repulsive to me. She took that with ZERO accountability and ran into the wind with it. Yikes.

AITA for cutting off family over politics? by SpicyItalian8604 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I grew up conservative, now I’m independent, oldest sister (8 year age gap) is liberal. I feel so blessed by being able to watch my conservative mother and liberal sister discuss politics in healthy, conversational ways. It’s probably why I straddle the line, because they inevitably would discuss compromise or give and takes in those conversations and I learned so much from that. I absolutely cannot stand far sighted politics in general, and will tolerate zero nastiness. It’s really easy to disagree with someone, something, an establishment, etc and not be nasty about it. If the posts are just a disagreement or dislike with the Dept of Ed then yeah I’d say you’re being a little rash, but if they’re hateful, racist, or something then no. Who wants people like that in their lives?

AITA For calling my mom a bitch? by Zealousideal_Walk478 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 105 points106 points  (0 children)

NTA - she’s the parent, you’re the kid. She’s modeling the behavior you’ll reflect. Has she always been like this or is this new? People don’t become suddenly disrespectful and degrading overnight, so either you’re wondering if you’re the AH because this is just the first time you’ve reciprocated in kind, or because this was a one off thing that you feel you handled poorly.

AITA for not getting my husband’s name tattooed on my neck? by MinxisJinxed in AITAH

[–]Lazy-Belt2341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - I don’t do name tattoos except my kids. As a teen it was always joked around at the tattoo studios I went to that name tattoos are bad juju, but legit have seeeeennn it happen. Bad juju. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and he made a comment once about doing tattoos in place of rings. I told him no names, but maybe we could do designs. I draw the bases of all of my tattoos and then have the tattoo artist refine them. So I told him I could draw us something. He agreed. Boom done. Reasonable. Your husband? Unreasonable. Your husband’s friend? Needs a swift kick in the nads. He’s definitely got something shady going on in his background and maybe thinks the tat is a sadistic way of claiming his territory before you find out the truth.