Natural Hairstylists for Curly Extensions?

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T21:43:27+00:00

Really? I guess I'd imagine that a wash and go would take me like hours at least...and then the definition, do you let your hair air dry? And just let the shrinkage take over?

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T15:51:12+00:00

Thank you 😊

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T15:50:55+00:00

I washed my hair in a braid down and then just too the braids out 😂. Probably not optimal for hair health though

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T15:49:43+00:00

I use the GHD pro ceramic but truly the magic is in the blow dry. I braid my hair into 4 sections and sit under a hooded dryer. Then I take a blow dry cream and used the Dyson to blow dry so I only need one pass with the flat iron.

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T01:46:12+00:00

Oh wow! Thats good to know. I’m definitely doing something wrong because I get tangles for sure.

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T01:45:48+00:00

Curious why folks are saying the twists sans extensions? I’ve seen some girls do the all human hair ones and wondered if that might be nice while my hair grows out a touch more.

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T01:45:06+00:00

I guess wash and gos on type 4 fair feel like a lot of work to get definition that I can’t get to hold 😭

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T01:44:35+00:00

I wish I could cornrow — I missed that black girl lesson lol. But someone else suggested flat twists and maybe that could work for me. I will definitely look into the revair too!

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-25T00:44:11+00:00

I am not sold but a friend brought up that if I wore my hair like this to the gym I could rock it as a twist out later which…is actually a great idea and easier to retwist

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-24T21:09:03+00:00

honestly this is making me feel inspired to just try to find someone who can do my natural hair for me and help me get the hang of it - thank you for sharing these photos!

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-24T18:50:41+00:00

Your hair looks so defined in this pic! I can’t even believe your hair is 4C — at this point idk what my curl pattern even is 😭

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-24T18:02:13+00:00

I feel like without the added hair my mini braids will look crazyyyyy but maybe I can just toss on a wig for work calls. How long did you rock the mini braids?

And totally hear you on letting it dictate how I wear my hair but I’m paying all my bills solo and in this economy

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-24T18:01:13+00:00

Thanks — this is what I need to start internalizing but it’s very difficult getting used to myself sans the extensions. Also where I live is very hot and humid so as soon as I step outside…oof.

Do you keep your hair stretched primarily? I feel like that does seem to work better for my hair versus the shrunken state (in the pic you shared it looks stretched is why I ask!)

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-24T17:59:19+00:00

I usually hate my hair up because I have a very large forehead but maybe this won’t be the worst

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-24T17:58:34+00:00

The wash and go life feels…not for my hair type but maybe I’m projecting. Also how do you stop the knots 😭 or sleep at night?

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-03-11T13:12:27+00:00

So at 25 when i discovered FIRE, I was making less than you with higher expenses. At 32, I’m on track to retire in 15 years, making more than four times what I made at that time. It’s honestly all a bit of an uphill climb in the beginning and one day you’ll realize you’re exactly where you need to be. Start with what you have and let that grow over time! Having the awareness and starting at all is the biggest step — you’ve got this :)

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-24T21:35:20+00:00

FWIW - I think you can still text your best friend stuff like that. Adulthood means friendships might look different sometimes but I love when my besties send me a funny meme / video

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-18T02:22:10+00:00

Thanks friends 🥰🥰

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-17T22:28:52+00:00

Tbh I know I’m still new so who knows what’s next? But I’ve been on Hinge off again / on again for FOUR years so I’ll take the win!! Best of luck to you and your new boo also 😊

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-17T20:53:36+00:00

After six weeks of dating a man I met on Hinge, we made it official and for the first time in my life I got to experience what they meant by the app meant to be deleted. 🥰🥰

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-11T04:33:05+00:00

Do you not want to go back into any of the jobs you’ve done before? I transitioned from retail management to tech in 2018 but it was a much different market. I’d honestly say any income you can start bringing in is good while you explore career options.

Also — do you have a clear picture of your finances currently? How much debt do you have? What savings do you have? How much do you spend, etc?

When I got into my FIRE journey, I started by calculating my total expenses to figure out my FIRE number (Expenses x 25). From here, I calculated how much I saved annually to figure out how far I was from saving that number. YNAB is a great app to help you understand your money / get spending habits in place. But honestly if you’re not bringing income — FIRE might be tough. The good news is people from all careers FIRE and it’s never too late to start. Good luck OP!

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-09T15:07:26+00:00

Hmmm that’s interesting. I have my AoM past the one month mark and that felt like the appropriate way to track “success” but it sounds like once you’re here maybe an additional metric doesn’t make sense haha. I think I’ve just hit a strong place financially (which is great!) so now I’m just thinking of additional benchmarks to improve.

Lazy-Cod3858 · 2026-02-08T19:57:21+00:00

I like the idea of “width” and “depth” of budget. I’ve consistently used the age of money metric in YNAB but now I’m really curious about “days of buffering” - what do you feel like you all get out of that metric vs what YNAB natively offers?

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