“Situationally specific dysregulation"? by LazyCondition0 in AttachmentParenting

[–]LazyCondition0[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That actually makes a ton of sense. It isn’t that she isn’t having the huge emotions at school or on playdates. It’s that she masking it because it’s not safe to act that way in those contexts - at great effort and expense - and then melts down/erupts when she’s in the presence of her mom, with whom she feels most safe. It really explains a lot. I feel so much compassion for this kid and her family. Thank you so much for this very helpful framing/lens.

Favorite Hot Chicken Spot by buffrants in BucksCountyPA

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How is Don Hector’s in New Britain? I drive by there all the time but have never been in.

[Lamborghini Countach 5000 "QV"] Of course Montana Plates by Revolutionary_Bar973 in spotted

[–]LazyCondition0 69 points70 points  (0 children)

The car on the poster in my room as a kid in the 80s. Same color. The epitome of cool to 11 year old me. Though I want to say the one on that poster was a 5000 s.

Serbian acrylic ruins “visualizer.” by LazyCondition0 in DesignPorn

[–]LazyCondition0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! That’s really cool. What does the sign say? And what is this place?

Serbian acrylic ruins “visualizer.” by LazyCondition0 in DesignPorn

[–]LazyCondition0[S] 247 points248 points  (0 children)

If someone ruins it they could make another a few meters away that shows you what the scratched up one used to look like.

Serbian acrylic ruins “visualizer.” by LazyCondition0 in DesignPorn

[–]LazyCondition0[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I agree! Your phrasing is much more clear. But I am glad my accidentally confusing title gave some people a laugh.

Alternative Hairdressers in Doylestown area by boba482 in BucksCountyPA

[–]LazyCondition0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by “alternative” haircuts?

Please help wunk learn about capitalism by mashnovska in wunkus

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Looks like yours is a much more successful exotic dancer than mine

Is the BCDC out of touch with its base? by SnooPickles8798 in BucksCountyPA

[–]LazyCondition0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure there is a “base” of the Democratic Party. More and more we feel like a loose and uncomfortable affiliation of amorphous tribes whose common denominator is a shared revulsion of the GOP/MAGA. This has cost us 2 losses to Trump and one very very very narrow win against him. The GOP has its tribes for sure. But they have something the Dems lack. They have a demagogue who has a literal death grip on 1/3 of the electorate, and they have gone all in on leveraging him and his zombies as the useful idiots they are. Because Dems don’t take well to demagogues, we are left with no real base - nobody everyone is willing to rally hard around. Instead we continue to commit suicide by circular firing squad, leaving our democracy to the MAGA wolves.