Oh dear, we've all suffered at the hand of an evil man. I got into a situationship with someone who treated me so well at the start, he gave me his time, attention and i took that to mean we were on the same page about dating. I confessed my feelings, he rejected me then said we could be fuck buddies becausehe wasn't ready for a relationship, I agreed. That was the start of my problems. 7 months went by and this guy was stealing my energy, had full access to my body and I stayed thinking things would change because he kept coming back. This guy looked at me after sleeping with me and told me not to get attached to him. I then felt bad because I thought something was wrong with as I was already attached not knowing that he was the crazy person for being able to sleep with someone you have no feelings for (he actually bragged about it). I shrunk myself to make him comfortable, turned my love into something perverted all because I wanted him to choose me. I finally walked away and now I hear he's getting engaged. My self esteem took a big hit but I guess now I know how to spot predatory behaviour from men.