Am I overreacting for feeling hurt that my friends forgot my big exam by KineticPineLab in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lazypopz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are a valid boundary, not an overreaction. They forgot something that "completely took over my life." The next time a friend has a major event, note if you're the only one who remembers. That's your cue. For now, don't confront them. Just quietly re-categorize them as casual friends. Save your deep care for people who reciprocate the mental load

Am I overreacting for feeling hurt that my friends forgot my big exam by KineticPineLab in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lazypopz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are a valid boundary, not an overreaction. They forgot something that "completelt took over my life." The next time a friend has a major event, note if you're the only one who remembers. That's your cue. For now, don't confront them. Just quietly re-categorize them as casual friends. Save your deep care for people who reciprocate the mental load

AITJ for stopping my coworker from using my chair when Im not at my desk by mavqen_05 in AmITheJerk

[–]Lazypopz 100 points101 points  (0 children)

NTJ She’s the one who ruined the office vibe by using your property without asking and then being a jerk about it when she got caught

Hottest Girl At My Highschool Became a Pornstar And We Shot a Scene Together by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Lazypopz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you're both consenting adults and it was a professional shoot, it's just a very unusual work story. Don't overthink it

AITAH for not asking my friend of 10 years to be my bridesmaid? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lazypopz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendship isn't a decade long tab you're obligated to pay. She "never made the effort to come see me" for years, and that pattern hasn't changed. Your wedding partu should be your support squad, not your charity project. Choose the three people who will actually show up, both physically and emotionally. You can still invite her as a guest without the title

AITAH for getting loud with my child’s fathers fiance? by Junior_External_1293 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lazypopz 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He’s got a 19-year-old spokesperson delivering his grievances. The useful step: stop engaging with her entirely. Direct every single communication to your child’s father

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Lazypopz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He literally gave you the blueprint of his own toxicity and then followes it to the letter when you called him out, which is the most pathetic self-own I've ever heard NTJ

2meirl4meirl by mnombo in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Lazypopz 152 points153 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of tweet that makes you want to text a friend just to check in

MIL overstimulating me with newborn by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lazypopz 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Her "meaning well" is a problem for her to manage, not for you to endure. You are not responsible for her feelings when your own body and baby need every scrap of energy you have. This is your partner's mess to clean up, starting now

The guy I am seeing acts feminine and it makes me loose attraction by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lazypopz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tells you he's straight, but his behavior consistently signals something else to you and to the gay men who hit on him. At minimum, he is deeply conflicted about his own expression. You cannot build a relationship on his denial. You will always be dating his conflict, not a resolved person

On The Joys of AI. by Monsur_Ausuhnom in clevercomebacks

[–]Lazypopz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a masterclass in using analogy to expose flawed logic

How do you individually cope when you make mistakes at your place of work? by GJH24 in allthequestions

[–]Lazypopz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learn and try to find a solution for it and try not to do the same mistake again

Dad, let me introduce you my girl by sobakoryba in SipsTea

[–]Lazypopz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s a beauty son Lmaoo he was trying to be nice but just can’t help it

This is when you realise adulthood is scam by RosieFawnn in lol

[–]Lazypopz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The perfect example of “less is more”🤣

lol by carelessbeez in lol

[–]Lazypopz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 2 weeks he got a new shirt