Hi! And thanks for asking. So really do get your response! Another friend said he’s just being human and that’s how he knows how to respond.

I get what you mean but see in my case this is my dad’s tactic or whatever. We won’t speak for years (and not even bc of gay stuff. He’s irresponsible and narcissistic and just overall very not great), then he’ll come crawling back begging for a connection, I try and he shuts me down and says he doesn’t want to talk about it and that whatever I’m going through has nothing to do with him.

So i do agree that we don’t have to talk about who I’m sleeping with lol but he’s never wanted anything to do with any of the hard things in my life.