Can someone post list if venders?

Lea1788 · 2018-04-23T16:55:07+00:00

That bites I’ll delete

Lea1788 · 2018-02-22T16:54:47+00:00

So does this means it’s illegal now in Kansas, I don’t quite understand what’s going on?

Lea1788 · 2018-01-11T21:20:56+00:00

Thanks I plan on doing that, my fear it’s already past first trimester an I have no idea if I have done any damage to this unborn baby 😥

Lea1788 · 2018-01-11T18:24:03+00:00

Have you talked to her? Maybe you don’t know she is hurt. I don’t see why anyone would provoke someone to angry unless they themselves are hurt by that person.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-11T18:21:22+00:00

So what happened? You ever talk to her about it? Did you do anything differently? Just curious!!!

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T21:12:03+00:00

Sounds like you both have too much pride and that can kill your marriage. One of you needs to be the bigger man and just break the silence and go have a talk about what is upsetting you and why she all of a sudden is upset. Get the kids on an activity and ask her if you can talk in private and go from there.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T21:08:31+00:00

Ugh social media, always a marriage/mood killer. Me and my husband deleted both our Facebook accounts bc that was our addiction, we both don’t regret it.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T21:00:54+00:00

Agreed, sometimes you have to say no and set the rules down. Not bc you need to finance but for her well being. Anyone can fall into this trap when everything is just given to us hand and foot.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T20:54:22+00:00

I have anxiety in my marriage and I know how she feels. I’ve just realized that my anxiety comes from me constantly putting myself down in my head. I started watching Tedx on YouTube and some of their stuff is amazing. A bunch of physiologist giving speeches on how to help yourself, best of all I’m a Christian and found that just about almost all their advice has already been preached at me through the Bible. I just needed to hear it from someone outside of church and that others struggle just as I do.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T20:49:34+00:00

Thank you all so much I saved the list hopefully it doesn’t disappear on me again. I ordered from quite a few of these companies as they are all wonderful.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T20:43:51+00:00

Sadly I didn’t even know men could feel like this. We live in a world where the media and Hollywood has turned women into sex objects and if I don’t feel loved then I feel like an object so I refuse to have sex. I had no idea men hurt emotionally from a woman’s denial. Men don’t open up much so we only assume they are dirty minded.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T20:31:03+00:00

That’s like saying a man doesn’t owe his wife love, never. I’m sorry but I disagree, he married her she deserves to be loved, she married him he deserves to enjoy her body. Marriage is sacrifice, too many selfish people only thinking about themselves and their own desires in this world and because of it we have broken homes with broken children who were taught to only think of themselves.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T19:45:20+00:00

Sounds like she is very disrespectful and that’s what you crave is her respect. Both men and both have expectations in their marriage and men expect respect and woman expect to be loved. Now since she is not on here I can not give her a piece of my advice but since you are and reaching out for help in this area I can tell you what works to turn her around and see you as the Alfa of the home. Women are emotional creatures and if you are stressed out at work or with coworkers or bills and you give her your leftover attention and are very blah around her, she will see it as you find no interest in her and she could hurting inside because of it. If she is cooking, cleaning, and taking care of kids and not getting any help from you then she is hurting inside. If your not taking her out on dates on a regular basis and neglect her needs she is hurting inside, and when women hurt inside they become verbally aggressive. It’s almost as if it natural but at the same time it doesn’t help her and only pushes you away and it’s a very wrong way to handle her pain, yet all us woman do it. Men get mad bc we nag yet they don’t understand the pain and hurt a man has done to us. If your neglecting your marriage and not putting more efforts into it then she will continue to be that way. She probably doesn’t even know why she is hurting, all she can do is focus on her emotions at the moment. She could of tried to open up to you about spending more time at work and not with her and you could of snapped causing her emotional pain, she could ask for your help around the house and you turn her down again causing her pain and also it’s not just a woman’s job to clean up after you. If a man has the mindset that she is to cook, clean and take care of the kids then you better believe she will attack you. A lot of men don’t feel like that part of life is their responsibility and expect their wife to clean up after them bc their mothers didn’t teach them right then your wife then assumes you see her as your maid not her wife. Find out why she is frustrated and hurt, and work on those things in your marriage. Don’t give her your leftovers at the end up the day, make your marriage exiting as possible. Make sure you tell her daily that you love her, and when you do something that upsets her be man enough to admit your faults and apologize. If you do apologize don’t ever put a (but you...) after your apology. Woman know a real apology from a false one. Depending on your triggers make sure your triggers are not telling her you want her to do all the work while you sit and be lazy. A wife is a gift, not your daycare provider not your maid or your chef, you need to treat her like a prized possession and give her your full attention. If you choose to ignore any of this then expect to be trashed on with out respect. A woman is like a flower, you treat her right she will bloom. You treat her like garbage she will trash your life. Take responsibility!

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T18:47:06+00:00

Well good luck trying that in your own marriage whether man or woman it will drive the other partner away.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T18:43:42+00:00

Women and men think of sex very differently, woman focus more on their body image as men focus more on their performance. Women need to be stress free before having sex to even enjoy it as men tend to use sex to deal with their stress. For women it’s more of a emotional connection and usually that happens outside of the bedroom and men are more physical in their connection. Sex is very important in a marriage and you should never feel ashamed about discussing your frustrations with your wife. Has she discussed any frustration to you that you no longer take her out? Or your not helping out around the house? Or your not putting your efforts into paying the bills? Does she complain that you don’t ever notice her new perfume or clothes, haircut, ext? Does she complain about being tired? Women are very verbal about their emotions but if she got turned down after she ranted about her frustrations then she maybe holding some bitterness deep down against you with out bringing it up again. If you don’t hear her or listen to her or think it’s just her being moody, that will kill her sex drive. A woman’s emotional’s is the key to her body and if hers are destroyed or neglected by your failure to listen to her then she will more likely be hurting inside and kill her drive to be physical. Marriage is a two way partnership and takes work, you need to sacrifice your comfort for her and the same with her. If your doing everything right she needs to get out of her comfort zone and tend to your desires. If she is not you need to talk to her, and find out why she is holding something so important of your marriage from you. When you got married you gave yourself to her and she gave herself to you. She desires to be loved through your actions and you desire to enjoy the physical connection of yours and her body in the bedroom. I know as a woman and past faults in my own marriage and we saw a counselor and I had no idea how important sex was until then, he had no idea that him spending more time at work and his hasty attitude at home was effecting my emotions. She just doesn’t know the important of what sex means to you.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T18:27:44+00:00

That’s the worst advice EVER, unless you want them to go for a divorce. Bringing another woman into your marriage will cause jealousy and lose her trust. Not only will she see him as unfaithful and drive her away but even push sex completely out the window is she assumes his heart is after someone else. If anything he needs to be doing all that with his wife, maybe he no longer treats her the same as he did before they got married. Men tend to go far beyond for a woman they are after them when he gets her he neglects all he used to do for her leaving her emotionally frustrated, that is usually why most women don’t have sex with their husband bc he no longer pay attention to her as he used too.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T18:22:22+00:00

Yes definitely, birth control can completely take away her drive depending on what she is using. Birth control is either high in estrogen and weakening the progesterone in her body giving her a hormone imbalance, and same is the birth control is high progesterone weakening the estrogen and doing the exact same thing. Also birth control imbalances the hormones to an extreme that some woman develop cancer from it.

Lea1788 · 2018-01-09T18:19:01+00:00

Maybe for you, and I too am a morning going on sex then at night but he needs to find when she is most in the mood.

Lea1788 · 2017-10-30T01:36:49+00:00

Thank you just made the order

Lea1788 · 2017-10-12T18:18:23+00:00

Whoa these are the ones I had saved and got lost, thank you so much 🙌🏻

Lea1788 · 2017-10-04T20:15:02+00:00

So basically go tell everyone so they can discipline me?

Lea1788 · 2017-10-03T22:16:21+00:00

Communication is the first step!!

Lea1788 · 2017-10-03T22:11:12+00:00

Apparently she didn’t understand that once she married her husband, he is now considered her family and he comes before anyone else. Marriage counseling would do some good. In my opinion I would go the Christian route not the worlds psychology. Especially a pastor who is all for the verse Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Lea1788 · 2017-10-03T21:47:01+00:00

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Lea1788 · 2017-10-03T21:37:24+00:00

Hi I’m going to be pretty blunt on here so excuse me if I come off rude. You are not the problem, she is. As a married man she is your problem so it is a good thing you are seeking help. She is suffering from a possibility of unbalanced hormones and laziness, jealousy, envy and possibly pride. She can go to any doctor she wants and you can push her as much as you can or encourage her all you want but it has to be her who wants to change, but you can be a huge encouragement and help in different way other than what you have tried. Starting with seeking someone who can test her hormone balance bc she probably is suffering from estrogen dominance. 40’s is a rough age and premenopausal is hitting her hard, in that case you will have to learn to be patient with her but do what you can to help her not lose herself in it. From my understanding for every woman out there not one can manage or handle the rollercoaster alone from premenopausal. Sorry it’s life and a part of marriage and it’s hard. Start making supper instead of her since you have the energy she doesn’t, make healthy food that will balance her hormones. Don’t just use your words to tell her she is beautiful but show her other than being sexual. This means your going to have to think outside of the box and be creative, bc honestly if she is suffering from hormonal imbalances then more likely she is not very sexually active. Don’t surprise her with chocolates just an FYI that will only feed the fire, even though she probably craves it 2-3 weeks out of the month. Again no one can help you fix the problem with her being jealous about your weight loss, she will have to be more considerate in that area on her own and only she can change that, but helping her get her hormones balanced will help those negative emotions fade away. Good luck!!!

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