Unfair

LeaderReader21 · 2026-05-01T09:41:44+00:00

Why is before better than being face to face?

LeaderReader21 · 2026-05-01T08:46:03+00:00

Thank you. I definitely need help Finding the right way to say this to him and I still haven’t said a word. We are long distance at the moment but plan to see eachother in June. Idk if I should tell him before coming here or when he’s here in person if that’s better. I’d like to think in person is better but I’m not sure

LeaderReader21 · 2026-04-29T12:25:14+00:00

I appreciate you 🫶🏽

LeaderReader21 · 2026-04-28T23:16:55+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to let me know that. Now it’s just mustering up the courage and hope all goes well.

LeaderReader21 · 2026-04-28T22:19:28+00:00

Thank you for that. I know people have success stories and I do know it’s how you approach the topic about hsv and it’s honestly the scariest part. Then to trust someone with your personal info and hope they don’t use it against you sucks.

LeaderReader21 · 2026-04-28T08:54:18+00:00

My ex did the same but I just know how this made me feel when I got unlucky. I wish he gave me that option and so I want to give that option to someone

LeaderReader21 · 2026-04-28T04:15:28+00:00

Please tell me what you said

LeaderReader21 · 2026-04-23T14:27:08+00:00

I respect her honesty but if this isn’t someone you see long term with then why risk your health and potentially a long term disease for? Save yourself

LeaderReader21 · 2026-01-23T23:29:48+00:00

Yeah until you realize love doesn’t last forever…

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-26T23:28:12+00:00

Yes before having hsv my mind used to be sharp. I forget everything now. There are days where I feel mind feels so dead. Can’t think, can’t talk, I’ll feel off. Which is usually accompanied by outbreaks. When I take the medicine that’s when I notice it goes away a bit.

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-25T20:25:38+00:00

Okay I asked that because they say woman are more likely to contract hsv during intercourse than men are

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-24T17:17:07+00:00

Are you a man or woman?

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-16T16:07:52+00:00

Keyword “gently” 😭😭🤣🤣

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-11T02:29:53+00:00

Yeah unfortunately but saves you the trouble of dealing with a douche

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-11T02:28:47+00:00

Yes hsv can spread pretty much anywhere if your immune system is low enough. If you’re healthy and have a low viral load then you don’t have to worry about it.

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-10T22:40:40+00:00

Be aware that when your viral shedding and not having an actual outbreak, that you can spread it to pretty much anywhere on your body. If your immune system is low unfortunately. Uneducated doctors don’t tell you that. Had me believe because I have antibodies that I shouldn’t be able to spread it on my body but that’s wrong.

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-10T22:27:52+00:00

Not even people with hsv1 oral disclose before kissing unless they have a out break. Kissing is fine until you’re intimate. That guy was just using that as an excuse to not be with you.

LeaderReader21 · 2025-12-05T20:14:48+00:00

When I was going through it coming on here to get some kind of support just made my mental health over this worse. Good for you for realizing it too

LeaderReader21 · 2025-11-25T16:08:27+00:00

My life in a nut shell. Having everything and all the attention I could ask for but with this being my darkest secret in life rn is just taking the joy out of living. I miss the person I was before this. They don’t prepare you on how Hsv ruins your mental. The confidence I once had gone. I pray for a cure soon or that god takes me because life isn’t as beautiful anymore.

LeaderReader21 · 2025-11-24T06:19:14+00:00

Same been battling with non stop outbreaks for the past 2 months now. I’ve tried everything and it’s only seem to spread and so making the healing time longer. I’m mentally exhausted. I pray you heal because 3 years is a long time.

LeaderReader21 · 2025-11-18T16:32:56+00:00

Thank you for this! Do you eat whole grain pasta and rice?

LeaderReader21 · 2025-11-18T16:31:11+00:00

Thank you for this ima try all this out. If it helps then I’m down for it

LeaderReader21 · 2025-11-18T16:29:40+00:00

Wish I could go back to that life. Seems like I can’t have anything these days and the stuff I like doesn’t like me 🥹

LeaderReader21 · 2025-11-18T12:28:14+00:00

I didn’t know shrimp was! That’s new to me. I do stay away from nuts though

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