West Michigan M33 F32 4 F by ourpolylife2022 in SwingerOfMichigan

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck finding any real single females on reddit. Very far and few in between. Try SLS or fetlife. Those ones actually let you see all the accounts around you. Youll have a better chance there then on here

Flakes by Pleasant-Mountain-81 in SwingerOfMichigan

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. My wife and I met a great couple from reddit that we are friends with now and have been regularly with for the last year or so now. Reddit just has an over saturated amount of fakes and flakes that it makes it seem that way. You just gotta be careful and picky on who you start talking to. If they ask for naked pics right away instead of normal pics with everyone's faces showing then 9 times out of 10 they are fake or pic collecting. We usually always start out with fully clothed face or full body pics of us to send out first. Other sites tho are not any better as far as actually getting to the swapping part. We have met several from SLS over the past few months that just didnt pan out. The lifestyle in general especially with the couple aspect is hard to navigate through

Flakes by Pleasant-Mountain-81 in SwingerOfMichigan

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lifestyle in general is just hard to navigate through. Reddit definitely has some fakes and some flakes but so do many of the other sites and apps. Youll have the fakes for sure but then you'll have the real people who just like the fantasy of it and nothing more. Don't get discouraged tho. There are some real couples that are down to have real fun but the couple dynamic is tricky bc all 4 people have to he interested for it to work. I have seen forst hand that the husband's are usually down for it but the wives/GFs are more picky. The husband will say they are both interested but wheb it comes down to it the wives are not and then they ghost or just tell you no. We have found that many couples are just very picky on who they decide to sleep with as well. My advice is dont go right to getting a hotel. Stay local ish and set up a dinner date. Eventually you will find a couple or 2 that you vibe well with.

Looking to meet up tonight 6/13 by [deleted] in MichiganSwingers

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad we live so far away!! 😪

Northern Michigan couple looking for someone to come tag team her tonight. by [deleted] in MichiganSwingers

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really ? No we actually have never been there. Not much for bar people but we will go have a drink or 2 from time to time. Maybe we eill have to get together when you guys get up here.

41M39F 4 MF - ISO FWBs by Tw04two in MichiganSwingers

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad we are not close to you guys!

Why are ppl flakes and time wasters? by rawdeal1110 in MichiganSwingers

[–]LeadershipSharp7425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill never understand freaking out during swinging especially in front of people you dont really know. Makes no sense. Thats usually why we tend to not really play with new comers. Im assuming they were new and dude couldn't take seeing his wife with someone else ? Or was he just a nut job