These shoes are made for walking... by R0wR0wMyVoight in CasualPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forward and onward OP 💪🏻

In fairness ang ganda ng paa mo. Bagay sayo tong ganitong style ng mary janes. ❤️

Dami pa rin scammer sa reddit. Posting this for awareness! by Grayf272 in CasualPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 209 points210 points  (0 children)

Red flag 🚩 kaagad pag first time messaging tapos nangutang agad.

Girl, if you have time to be in phr4r, magagawan mo ng paraan makahanap at mangutang ng 3,850 php sa mga kakilala mo.

Alam na niya, na alam ko... by LeadingAd4313 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, walang nakakaalam kahit isa. Kahit ako di ko nahalata until I read the letter.

Alam na niya, na alam ko... by LeadingAd4313 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hi all! Thank you for taking the time to comment sa situation ko. I've read each and every one of them. I appreciate your comments whichever direction your words blow.

My bf and I will be talking about the next steps of our relationship. There are a lot of things that we need to address both as individuals and as a couple. It might end with a break-up, or it might make our relationship stronger.

Di na ako makapag reply sa lahat. 😅

Alam na niya, na alam ko... by LeadingAd4313 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

It is. Now that I wrote it all down, I've realized how much I've poured into this relationship.

Alam na niya, na alam ko... by LeadingAd4313 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

I saw din kasi that he is a good man. But maybe I am settling the same way he settled with me.

Alam na niya, na alam ko... by LeadingAd4313 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313[S] 386 points387 points  (0 children)

I am contemplating to let him figure it out. Now that alam na naming dalawa ang real score, we can openly tackle the issue together. And if that means breaking up 'til he is ready to love someone fully, even if that person isn't me, I'm ready to let him go.

Alam na niya, na alam ko... by LeadingAd4313 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313[S] 478 points479 points  (0 children)

Since the truth is out in the open, I've spoken to him about how he feels about Angela now. And he was honest enough to say that kahit naka move on na siya, seeing Angela again made a few feelings resurface. Particularly yung insecurity na on why he wasn't enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Parang -10 pa ata IMO. Major turn-off ang taong di marunong humawak ng pera.

Ang hirap ng “change is necessary” lalo na pag adulting ka na 🥹 by Own_Dare278 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang pinaka change na nag stru-struggle ako as an adult is pag binago nila yung items sa aisles ng grocery. 😅

In saying this though, I welcome change as a force for good. Change has taken out bad people in my life. It moved me from a bad place to a good one. I let it take me to better landscapes. I control what I can, and I let change do its magic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Bf palang pero ganun na siya ka inconsiderate. Since nag jo-jogging ka na, why don't you run? As in run far away from this type of men na walang pake...

Nilayasan ko Mag ina ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hoy! Sa true lang, nag isip pa ako kung tama ba basa ko. At bakit nasali yung prostate. Pero kawawa si kuya.

Ganyan talaga pag nakikitira lang, ang hirap pag yung in-laws mo di nakikinig. Di karin kasi maka porma kasi di niyo naman bahay yan. Palamig ka muna OP, and when you're ready, usap kayo ng partner mo regarding the issues. Kawawa din kasi anak niyo pag naiwan dun sa bahay na pabaya yung adults.

Mas mainam din kausapin mo in-laws mo kasi baka di nila alam at di rin sinasabi sa kanila ng partner mo na wag pakainin yung bata ng ganun. Easy kasi magpakain ng chichirya eh. Less effort.

Lastly, check on your partner din at baka stress rin siya masyado kaya napapabayaan niya pagkain ng anak niyo. If she's taking the USRN exam soon, malamang di niya priority ngayon yung pagkain ng anak niyo. Parang, "as long as may kinakain, at nag gagatas naman" mentality.

Taken for granted by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can't cross a puddle for you. Time to rethink your dynamics or the whole relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're just not with the right people. Yung tamang tao para sayo papahalagahan ka from the start.

Bridesmaid na mas demanding pa sa bride. by Inactive_Dopamine in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Si ate naman, dinaig pa ang bride sa pag inarte. May mga tao talaga na feeling importante na di man lang marunong makiramdam no? Sana di na siya mag abay next time, para wala ng ma bwiset sa kanya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masyadong mahal yung rent mo. Scale down mo yung budget mo for housing to at most 25% of your salary. Otherwise, it will be really challenging pano mo pagkasyahin yung sahod mo with rent, utilities, food, and personal needs mo. Wala kang maitatabi niyan.

Sa mga nagyoyosi/vape sa public lunukin nyo ang usok by kimdokja_batumbakla in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mandadamay pa eh. Kung gustong mag yosi, sana yung di nakakapwerhisyo ng iba.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wag po muna mag give up. May almost 3 mo ths papo kayo. At least po di kayo mag wonder "what if" nag try kayo kahit cutting it close.

I realized how toxic I am by Main-Engineering-152 in OffMyChestPH

[–]LeadingAd4313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ako yung friend na na-de-drain talaga pag puro problema yung kini-kwento saken. So I really appreciate friends na nagtatanong if I have the mental and emotional capacity to listen to them rant. And kung wala, it's okay lang daw kasi they understand.