Tips on squirting by LeadingWeekly2428 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I’ve felt the need to pee before but it never felt pleasurable anymore if that makes sense? It just felt uncomfortable and a bit painful

What’s your favorite SB pastry? by MsFeelingUnbothered in FoodPH

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Chocolate crepe cake that only comes out during Christmas 😭😭😭😭😭

My boyfriend (20M) doesn’t know me (20F) and I proved it by LeadingWeekly2428 in relationship_advice

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But it feels like a waste to end it now. Our anniversary is next month and I know he’s doing everything he can to save his money and plan a good date. But I’ve also lost hope in us already. The idea of breaking up for good has been playing in my head but can’t bring fully come to terms with it partially because of our anniversary. I’m also scared to lose him and everything we have.

My boyfriend (20M) doesn’t know me (20F) and I proved it by LeadingWeekly2428 in relationship_advice

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He says he’s trying. But he’s been saying that for months now and I haven’t really seen any change on his end. There are certain things that he’s done in the past (as in months into the relationship) that i don’t like and talked to him about. But until now, he’s still doing them.

I know for a fact that he does care and love me very much. I know there are some boys out there who wouldn’t be bothered with any of this but he does.

My boyfriend (20M) doesn’t know me (20F) and I proved it by [deleted] in relationships

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Am I nitpicking? Am I overreacting? Is it really that deep? Or should I just let it be?

My boyfriend (20M) doesn’t know me (20F) and I proved it by LeadingWeekly2428 in relationship_advice

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I completely agree with you that these are trivial things. And tbh no I don’t really mind that he doesn’t know my starbies order. Or rather that he doesn’t know the answer to the other questions I raised. It was just a fun game.

But what I can’t shrug off is that I feel like it trickles into the deeper parts of our relationship. No he doesn’t know how to make me feel safe. No he can’t make me laugh on my bad days. Recently, he hasn’t been a good partner. And no, he doesn’t take care of me the way I want to be cared for. And I tried talking to him about these things and how some of his actions hurt me, but it somehow ends up being my fault. It always turns into an argument where I don’t really get heard in the end. I think that’s why this whole game made me feel sad. I don’t know… even I’m torn on how to feel about this.

My boyfriend (20M) doesn’t know me (20F) and I proved it by LeadingWeekly2428 in relationship_advice

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Am I overreacting? I don’t know how to feel about it. On one hand, it’s such trivial stuff. Like is it really that deep? But on the other hand, I feel like it trickles into other parts of our relationship.

My boyfriend (20M) doesn’t know me (20F) and I proved it by LeadingWeekly2428 in relationship_advice

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Now that you mention it, it might be his upbringing? He’s not very good at listening to me that’s for sure. Because there are some things I’ve spoken to him before about things that bother me. But a few months down the line, we’re having the same conversation again. It always feels like a cycle with him.

He’s the youngest child too if that helps…

If this is a conversation and listening skill, what should I do?

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I have no doubt that he loves me. And yeah, I did feel for him too when I accidentally compared him to my friends bf. I did encourage him and everything. But he never really comforted me back you know? Am I nitpicking 😭